Activity for Desiree

We are only a few weeks away and just wondering what are some small details people nearly forgot about that are important. We are the first wedding within both of our immediate family so think we could easily be forgetting things. Thanks in advance!

This may be a stupid question. Wondering what other suggest when the rsvp date has passed and then you try to get ahold of them through phone email etc and again do not get an answer? Do you keep bugging? Make the assumption that they aren’t coming?...

Wondering what your invited amount of guests were verse number who rsvp to show up? We have been told it's usually around 60% which for us would be able 150 out of 250. But we already have 70+ people who said they are coming and 180 that still need...

The mother of the groom is wanting to wear a black dress to our wedding, along with his grandma. Our colors are red and sliver. She isn't doing as a sign of mourning or anything like that but just rubs me the wrong way and also think it would look...

We are getting married 2/10/18 and our wedding is 4 hours away from most of our guests. I know most places say if your wedding is far away to send out save the dates sooner, but how soon is too soon? We have them ready just need to mail?