Activity for FutureMIW

I've been looking for vintage emerald heels to wear at my wedding! I finally found the PERFECT shoes after months of searching on poshmark of all places, I go to buy them and they are "no longer for sale"! Shit mother fucker!!! I cried, it was...

I just love these so so much, and we had so much fun taking them!!!!

Ok so I've already picked out the ceremony music. The processional will be God Only Knows by the Beach Boys and the recessional will be Come Sail Away by STYX. My question is should i ask my step bother who's a semi professional musician to play them...

Im a professor at the college that me and my fiancé graduated from. Would it be super tacky to get engagement pictures taken on campus. The campus is in East Texas and it really is stunning! Thoughts?

Is it rude or silly to use two different photographers, one for the engagement photos and another for the wedding?

How do you find a photographer, a caterer, and the like? Do you just look at reviews online, or personally meet with them all? Do you just ask people for suggestions? HELP! I have no clue what I'm doing.