Activity for Pugluv80

I have seen some beautiful cake toppers! Show me yours for some inspiration!

I’ve been so back and forth of what I want our cake to look like so show me yours!

I think the most traditional would be a unity candle, but have you guys done any non-traditional unity things during your ceremony instead of lighting unity candles? I've seen sand or paint pours, but I'd love to hear what other ideas people have...

We are getting married in a cave and candles are not allowed to be lit in the cave, this is our second marriage but our first actual wedding we both eloped on our first marriage. Is it necessary or bad luck if we don't do a unity candle??

FH wants a Tantalum ring. I would really like to go to a physical store but every store I call says it's a newer metal used for men's rings so they aren't carrying it yet. Does anybody know any physical stores that sell this type of ring? These rings...