Activity for FutureMrsL

Luckily I have an amazing, hands on MOH. I was planning to do everything myself with no expectations of her helping like this - but she wants to do it all. She has asked my to put together like a planner, time line, to-do booklet type thing for her...

So FH had custody arrangements altered last week - and because baby mama has step kids, now our wedding weekend is "kid free". I want the boys there so bad. I also want a fall wedding but I picked the only FL football bye - week in the season...

Is anyone using fancy plastic dinnerware or something cheap? Please tell me where you found your plates, glasses, etc... Thanks!

So my venue is a historic site and NOTHING can be thrown. No petsls (real or fake), birdseed, rice or bubbles. What are some alternatives for her to use? Also what can i do to improve the aisle now?

I need to know how long to rent a location for the ceremony as well as the reception for decor, event and clean up. Also what is a good time frame for a wedding in October late afternoonish start time?

Do you like the look of bridesmaids in one uniform color or the variations. Like instead of all in cobalt blue - do light medium and dark blues as well?

My cousin who has never lived close just moved to town. I have all of my bridesmaids is there another job that could make her feel included... since all of our other first cousins are in the wedding :/

My FH has 3 boys, that i already love like my own, they are twins 7 and a 4 yo... I have always dreamed on having them involved but he just told me he may not want them to be standing up front as pary of the groom's party. This day is about...

My colors are Cobalt/Royal Blue and a Light Orange/Peach color. My bridesmaids will be in blue and I want the guys in pants, button up shirts and suspenders... possibly a type of tie. What color combos would you suggest for each piece to make it look...

Bluntly my dad is a POS. So I am wanting to dance with my brother. He is 9 years younger than me - So i will be 23 and he will be 15. Is that okay. I know it is my day and all I would just like opinions. Also I want to dance to Guardian Angel by Red...

My FH and I have decided we would rather use our 'budget' on going somewhere (basically eloping) we have never been and possible having a small ceremony there. However, he has 3 small boys from a previous marriage... I WANT and have to have them...