Activity for FutureMrsL

Luckily I have an amazing, hands on MOH. I was planning to do everything myself with no expectations of her helping like this - but she wants to do it all. She has asked my to put together like a planner, time line, to-do booklet type thing for her...

So FH had custody arrangements altered last week - and because baby mama has step kids, now our wedding weekend is "kid free". I want the boys there so bad. I also want a fall wedding but I picked the only FL football bye - week in the season...

Is anyone using fancy plastic dinnerware or something cheap? Please tell me where you found your plates, glasses, etc... Thanks!

So my venue is a historic site and NOTHING can be thrown. No petsls (real or fake), birdseed, rice or bubbles. What are some alternatives for her to use? Also what can i do to improve the aisle now?

I need to know how long to rent a location for the ceremony as well as the reception for decor, event and clean up. Also what is a good time frame for a wedding in October late afternoonish start time?

Do you like the look of bridesmaids in one uniform color or the variations. Like instead of all in cobalt blue - do light medium and dark blues as well?