Activity for May Bride

After much searching, I finally found my wedding shoes! Well, hopefully. Ordered them from Nordstrom and I'm crossing my fingers they fit, since the next size up is sold out. Otherwise... back to the drawing board. They're the Badley Mischka "Cara"...

What colour do you think would work with knee-length light purple bridesmaid dresses? 4 people are in bridal party, if it matters. Some possibilities are silver, nude, ivory. Is it strange for bridesmaids to wear ivory? One of my bridesmaids said...

Not sure if there's a thread on this already but I want to see all of the beautiful venues everyone chose.

I've probably been on here way too long to even consider this, but would it be crazy to make bbq pulled pork sandwiches for 25 people (5 of whom are kids), two days before my wedding? I'd probably add side dishes of a big salad and pasta to even it...

My FH has 1 best man and 2 groomsmen. One of his groomsmen is in the navy. Our colours are lavender and navy blue. Originally our plan was to have bridesmaids in lavender and groomsmen in navy. Do you think it would look okay to have two groomsmen...