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3231 days agoFor the three people who aren't aware, I have two jobs: airline operations and... gay fan fiction porn author, which really can be taken several ways. Both jobs pay my bills, but today's my day off from working for the airlines. That means that today...
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3233 days agoWell, since FW and I are headed to Hawaii, I figured I'd ask if anyone had any suggestions of things we could do while we're there. We're staying on Oahu, in Honolulu, and we're only going to be there for four and a half days. We're looking for...
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3237 days agoFW and I are headed down to Ithaca today after somehow managing to wrangle a day off for her. We're going down to take care of a problem I've talked about before: the town clerk being absolutely baffled by our paperwork from two countries outside the...
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3240 days agoWell, we had a mini-disaster yesterday. The place that we were renting chairs from inexplicably tripled their original quoted price on us. The new price just... isn't anywhere even remotely close to the realm of possibility. That left us in quite a...
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3241 days agoThis last week has been a pain in the butt. So, let's add some levity. What's the dumbest issue you've had happen while you've been planning your wedding? I'll volunteer a personal favorite from this last week: My FW and I are both from outside of...
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3241 days agoLast week I asked for help looking for a beachy honeymoon place. You guys certainly gave us a lot of options! I did some checking with my airline, and it looks like they fixed the issue with hilariously long travel times to Hawaii. Since it's now...
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3242 days agoI just had a thought this morning. Our wedding guests can be divided easily into two groups: people who know how we met, and people who were told something else when the subject came up. I, personally, have no issues with anyone knowing how we met....
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3244 days agoSo, today, I talked to a guest of mine who had RSVPd. She messaged me to say that one of my bridesmaids had told her that she wasn't coming to the wedding, and since she was the guest's ride, the guest wanted to apologize. Guess what. This is the...
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3248 days agoMy dress is very inexpensive. It's plain, not much to see, but for some reason I adore it. However, there's an unfortunate fact I wasn't able to get around: I am quite short. The kind of short where tall people hold things over my head just to watch...
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3248 days agoI work for an airline, so I can fly pretty much anywhere for free. We have to stay in the US. We want to be on or very close to a beach. And either cheap-as-hell rental car or a place where we wouldn't need a rental car. I'm looking for somewhere...
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3253 days agoI just noticed, I've got five now. Woo!
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3255 days agoFW got a text yesterday from her Dad informing her that a six person group (plus a baby, I believe) are coming to the wedding. We didn't invite them. FW told me she's only met one person in the group and has heard bad things about at least one of the...
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3260 days agoOur writing-themed wedding is going fantastically well, except for one thing: we can't decide what song we want to have our bridal party enter to. We're walking in to Pachelbel's Canon, but want the bridesmaids to walk in to something different, fun...
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3268 days agoSo, I'm just curious. For those of you who have a FH or FW who's helping (in any way, shape or form) with the wedding plans, what's the weirdest thing they've asked for or suggested? I'm always curious, since people sometimes have crazy or very funny...
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3268 days agoThis something I've been puzzling over for ages but have not found a satisfactory solution to. We're getting hitched in front of a waterfall at a state park. Gorgeous site... and completely out in the open (unless, for some reason, somebody felt like...
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3272 days agoLess than two months before the wedding, and I'm tired of waiting or my FW to actually get off her butt and do things. She insists she wants to be involved, but when I tell her we actually need to do things, all she does is sit down and stress out....