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Hi! I'm back from our "free" honeymoon in Jamaica! It was really relaxing. We didn't really do anything though; figured if we go again we'll try to see/do more. Couple questions/recommendations came up during our trip, I thought I'd share! 1. If you...

We've had the "will you sell your dress after" conversations. Well, now I'm after. I know of preownedweddingdresses.com, but does anyone know of any others? I think I want to sell my dress and save my veil. Has anyone bought their dress used? From...

I made program fans in October and was driving myself crazy because 1. I didn't want to make them and 2. When I finally made them, I used the incorrect language for one of the groomsman's name. Forward to today, we were married Friday. At the time of...

I will start by saying/agreeing, I should never have agreed to a room block, since I'm bound to the min. room count. Continuing, I'm pretty sure, after meeting the "criteria" I'm still going to get screwed by the block. Block says I am responsible...

Like in a monetary way, not health. We paid the venue in full yesterday. I think I gave them the equivalent of a small, economical car. We still have to pay for hotel rooms (next week) plus all the small stuff - hair/makeup, our dog walker for the...

We have an open, full liquor bar included with our cocktail hour. That was part of our original contract. We were going to do a cash bar at the reception (don't hang me on the cross just yet) so basically, the cocktail hour is in one area, closes,...

Bah, the humanity! To date, the only DIY I've had was putting stickers on my favors, and I'm still bitter because I totally thought they came with the stickers on...but now I have to make program fans! Talking with ladies earlier who made their own,...

IDK. There are a lot of things people think are necessary. Is a rehearsal? I'm old. Three of my 4 bridesmaids are married, and the 4th is divorced. The ceremony will consist of people who are all married walking down the aisle, sitting down, then BM...

I want to extend my gratitude to all of you wonderful ladies out here in ww world. I seem to post a lot of questions or rants and you all give constructive/supportive replies. I am not traditionally a person who can see when a person just needs...

What kind of question is this, I know! After my photographer fiasco, I've hired separate photographers and photobooth. The photobooth will be "open air" because I think this is more fun, but I have to choose a back drop color. I need your votes! They...

So last week I was all like "oh, I get an almost free honeymoon, la, la, la!" I should have known karma's a bitch! So far this week, my photographer has disappeared and taken my $500 deposit with her, and I'm probably going to end up having to...

England, of course! I signed my contract in May 2015. Wedding is in oh, 6 weeks. I called to make my final payment today. Receptionist couldn't find my contract. She took my payment and info and said she'd have photographer call me. Recep. calls me...

Well, sort of. We are having the wedding at the Hyatt. I initially got a Hyatt Chase card, and we've been putting wedding costs and payments on it to build up the points. Because I spent $1000 in the first 2 months, I got 2 free nights. We...

I haven't seen too much talk about this recently. I'm on the fence. I've got almost $3000 invested in the dress and accessories. I really don't foresee myself doing anything with it after the wedding except hang it in the closet. But I also...

Dropped $1000 on a cake this weekend. I'll be happy 11/28/15 simply because I can stop hemorrhaging money.

My invitation lady also makes wedding programs. She has some cute fans she makes, so I was thinking I could purchase these for the ceremony. Background, the ceremony is outside in FL at the end of Nov. but the ceremony will be before sundown so it...