Activity for Melissa

For those that got hitched before the wedding day, did you feel like the magic from your wedding day was gone? Would you have preferred waiting until your wedding day to get married?

For those of you who have hired or are considering a day of coordinator, what are you spending (roughly)? I am considering it, but don't know if I want to spend the $$$$ for one.

What's everyone wearing to their bridal shower??? I am struggling with choosing an outfit. I'm not overly girly girl, and my bridal shower is mostly a dark floral theme (same as my wedding), and picking an outfit gives me more anxiety than planning...

What are you going to put into your day of bride kit, or emergency kit, if you are having one? What are the essentials I should take with me in case of anything the day of?

My fiance and I are not party hosters. We don't really like having loads of people over or anything, and both do not drink. We have been thinking that after the ceremony to find a beautiful restaurant to have a intimate dinner (that we pay for) with...