Activity for Jess

All of my bridesmaids and /moh do not live near me. i was planning on sending them boxes but i wish i could be there personally .. does any one have any ideas on making it special even though i can’t be present?

Looking to chose my bridal party soon but not sure if my MOH will be my maid of honor or matron of honor. right now she is not married but by the time my wedding comes along she will be.. what title do i use?