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I love planning and pinteresting and magazines and organizing... However, I am in the early stages of planning , no set date but 3 solid ideas we are narrowing down and yet so far the wedding planning is not as much fun as I dreamed it would be....

My fiancé wants a super nice big wedding. While I want an intimate small and elegant affair. A large part of me wants to have a destination wedding because it will automatically cancel out acquaintances and distant friends who are not that committed...