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My fiance and I live in Minnesota. His family all lives in California and we are going to be having a couple's shower in California. Is there a polite way on the invitation to ask for gift cards/cash? Gifts are not an expectation, but if people do...

Hello! My fiance and I live in Minnesota and we will also be having our wedding in Minnesota. Most of his family lives in California. I will be having a bridal shower here with my family but I do not want to leave his family out or have them pay for...