Activity for TALITHA

I have been with my boyfriend for a year and half now and even though he is letting me plan our wedding he hasn't even proposed to me yet . I have asked him why and he just shrugs it off and says that he isn't ready yet .. can anyone tell me how long...

Should I allow my guests to help stuff like money for the wedding cake and other stuff like paying their part in the wedding

I am finding it difficult to join the gym due to no money or not enough money and want to lose weight before my wedding