Activity for Shawna

So I told my mom we are having a disney wedding (we live 1.5 hrs away from the park) and she doesnt seem to keen on the idea insisting that its cheeper to have it around where we live. (Its like 1000 cheeper to have it here where we live) she doesnt...

So there is alot of kids in my family. We are having a disney wedding so we cant really affords kids outside of my daughter and the kids of the wedding like flower girls ring berrer ect. Is it rude to say no kids on the invite? Just really cant...