Activity for Courtney

So my fiancé and myself have asked for our family and friends to gift us a monetary donation towards us doing ivf after our wedding rather then a physical gift as we have also lived together for the last 5 years and do not need physical house...

Has anyone else chosen their first dance song on their own? My FH isn’t showing a whole lot of enthusiasm to help me with songs. He helps with the wedding planning when I ask him to help but doesn’t take the initiative or make any effort to join in...