Activity for Cyrill

We have several cousins who are trying to bring kids to our wedding even though we have specified that it is adults only. They are flying out and saying they will just come to the ceremony. The ceremony is 15 minutes long in a park across the street...

My shower is in a few weeks and I am not sure if I should get a gift for the people planning it. My mother passed away so a big group of family and friends are throwing it by each signing up for one or two things. There are about 12 of them in total....