Activity for Heather

Everyone keeps hounding me that I need to change out of my dress and change into an outfit of some sort before our Grand Exit from the reception? I don't think so but what are everyones thoughts? If so I only have 3 days to find an outfit!!

I'm trying to cut things out of our budget so my parents won't be spending a ton while trying to help us out. What does everyone think on cutting save the dates and just sending everyone the "wedding website" with all the information there instead?...

I was thinking of doing a "Cocktail" style reception? I would have plenty of food and drinks for this. Any ideas or has anyone ever been to reception like this?