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My GF and I are planning on Tatoos instead of rings and I am trying to think of how we can do this and should it be done before the wedding or after? During??? If anyone else is doing this let me know your thoughts or even if your not any ideas. ...

I really like this site but I am bride getting married to the love of my life who happens to be another woman. Any thoughts?? I am really excited about planning our day but I am really not sure where to start.