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My mother and I planned a great jack-and jill shower for my sister and her fiance (who are getting married right before me). They provided us with the addresses for some 80 guests off their wedding guest list. We got about 20 rsvp's that said they...

I'm guessing this is going to spark off a big debate, but my fiance and I want to ask for people to bring beverage donations (soda, beer, etc) to the jack and jill shower in lieu of gifts. We are providing the beverages ourselves to cut down on...