Activity for Melanie

I'm not sure what to do about the hair/makeup situation for my bridesmaids. I am not paying for my bridesmaids' hair or makeup - but, I am paying for both of these things for myself. I explained to them that "I can't afford to pay for any of you, so...

I am planning my Michigan wedding from Tennessee - it's about a 9 hour drive between my house in TN and the wedding venue in MI. I'm having trouble figuring out how to even plan for making/getting/picking up decorations, centerpieces, and all of that...