Activity for Grace

So I have been obsessed with Minted and their invitations. The problem is, I have 200 guests and really want foil-pressed and their more expensive paper. With all of the stationery included, it's around $2000. I obviously don't want to spend...

I know most people have the typical three dances at the beginning of the reception: couple's first dance, mother-son, and father-daughter. Would it be too much to add one more? I really want to incorporate my grandpa and would love to share a dance...

We're from North Carolina and FH does not want to fly anywhere for our honeymoon. We love the winter (which is why we're getting married in January) but not so much winter sports, so no skiing trips. Any cool ideas? Preferably nothing Florida related...