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I have trouble spending extra money on something that people will just wipe the mouths on to just have my name on it. Thoughts? Does anyone think it's worth the money?

We are up to 200 now and I am thinking since most of them are 5+ hours away that a lot won't come. But I was talking to a friend and she said that I should plan for only 15% not to come. Are the percentages different when everyone lives so far away? ...

I am all the way sweetheart table but my FH wants a head table. Are there any advantages to a head table that I don't know about? I really want a sweetheart because I would get alone time with my groom and I feel like a head table is sort of medieval...