Activity for LORI

Ok , I am getting married at 1pm , and the Reception is at our home, we invited only close family and friends maybe 50 tops. Now since it will be about 2ish by the time we take pictures and get back home , I was thinking on serving appeitizers...

For me , I am not sure yet, I have picked chocolate and lemon cupcakes, Just not sure on the cake yet.

The wedding is at 1pm, it is very small maybe 40 people, and the reception is following the wedding, What types of food to serve? I am in a dilemia, I was first thinking baked beans, potatoe salad, pasta salad, ham/turkey, rolls, meatballs, cheese...