Discussions by Zoni

Well, I've been looking for weeks and I've had absolutely zero luck. So I'm going to ask you lovely ladies for help. I have three bridesmaids and I'm on a ridiculously tight budget. I know a lot of...

Well, since FW and I are headed to Hawaii, I figured I'd ask if anyone had any suggestions of things we could do while we're there. We're staying on Oahu, in Honolulu, and we're only going to be there...

For the three people who aren't aware, I have two jobs: airline operations and... gay fan fiction porn author, which really can be taken several ways. Both jobs pay my bills, but today's my day off...

I've been busy this week and not on here much, but I'm hoping someone can offer some advice. My FMIL is an absolutely amazing woman. She offered to buy flowers for our wedding (which is amazing!), and...

FW and I are headed down to Ithaca today after somehow managing to wrangle a day off for her. We're going down to take care of a problem I've talked about before: the town clerk being absolutely...

Last week I asked for help looking for a beachy honeymoon place. You guys certainly gave us a lot of options! I did some checking with my airline, and it looks like they fixed the issue with...

Well, we had a mini-disaster yesterday. The place that we were renting chairs from inexplicably tripled their original quoted price on us. The new price just... isn't anywhere even remotely close to...

This last week has been a pain in the butt. So, let's add some levity. What's the dumbest issue you've had happen while you've been planning your wedding? I'll volunteer a personal favorite from this...

I just had a thought this morning. Our wedding guests can be divided easily into two groups: people who know how we met, and people who were told something else when the subject came up. I,...

Ugh. Okay, so for those of you who are aware that one of my bridesmaids backed out (and I found out through a third party), I do have an update! The bridesmaid in question finally did contact me,...

We have had absolutely zero luck finding any that are the right length. Either they're way, way too short or ridiculously too long. Anybody know where we might find some?

So, today, I talked to a guest of mine who had RSVPd. She messaged me to say that one of my bridesmaids had told her that she wasn't coming to the wedding, and since she was the guest's ride, the...

I work for an airline, so I can fly pretty much anywhere for free. We have to stay in the US. We want to be on or very close to a beach. And either cheap-as-hell rental car or a place where we...

My dress is very inexpensive. It's plain, not much to see, but for some reason I adore it. However, there's an unfortunate fact I wasn't able to get around: I am quite short. The kind of short where...

I just noticed, I've got five now. Woo!

FW got a text yesterday from her Dad informing her that a six person group (plus a baby, I believe) are coming to the wedding. We didn't invite them. FW told me she's only met one person in the group...

Our writing-themed wedding is going fantastically well, except for one thing: we can't decide what song we want to have our bridal party enter to. We're walking in to Pachelbel's Canon, but want the...

So, I'm just curious. For those of you who have a FH or FW who's helping (in any way, shape or form) with the wedding plans, what's the weirdest thing they've asked for or suggested? I'm always...

This something I've been puzzling over for ages but have not found a satisfactory solution to. We're getting hitched in front of a waterfall at a state park. Gorgeous site... and completely out in the...