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November 8, 2019
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I prefer not to do the garter toss or removal or even the bouquet toss. Will anyone notice, are they that big a deal? I prefer to mingle and dance the night away!
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Hi! I am just wondering what traditions and things unique to you that you are incorporating into your special day? Ideas, pics. Handfasting, traditional vows or writing your own? Officiant? etc. Fun...
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I have seen some posts about how much some things cost, however I was wondering if anyone in MA could shed some light on whether this is average or high or even low for a photographer and a...
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I am sorry if this has been posted before, I could not find one. How did you choose your DJ? Did you see them at an event, watch videos? I have researched a few and i have them narrowed down but i...
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So FH and I were playing with dates and numbers, knowing it would be much cheaper to go Sunday or Friday (Do not want Sunday) We started looking Friday dates and we do not want the day after Halloween...
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I know its crazy early but anyone else having a long engagement? I'm glad i have time to plan the wedding we want yet i hate that it is so far away lol! ETA: sorry i did not mean to offend anyone! I...
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I do not have many family or friends that I am inviting and most of our 50 guests are all his family and friends. Now i know this is our choice, however I feel like I am going to feel weird or awkward...
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I know if you invite so many only a certain number will show so my question is; if we want 50 guests how many should we actually invite? We cant go over though as there are only 50 seats but we do...
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I saw a post that says who should be invited and did not want to impose on someone else's thread. We are having a fairly small wedding and if we were to invite all that you should, It would be almost...
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I absolutely love our venue and its location, its elegant and beautiful. However I do not like the carpet and was wondering how much that matters. Candlelight reception, dance floor and tables...
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I want a half up half down hair do, however I am not sure i want a veil. I was thinking a headpiece or even just some little flowers and little bling in my hair. I am not sure what i want yet but here...
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Ok i know it is crazy early and i also understand sometimes you can have "dress regrets" but i am so positive this is my dress and i am so in love with it! I do not want to pass it up and miss out...
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I have a long way to go but chose my colors and flowers today! Im getting excited! Opinions on Burgundy and White? Whats everyones colors?
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Ok im not sure how many times this has been done and couldnt find it in search so im asking for advice, we are getting married in 2020 which feels like forever away lol but we kept changing the year...