Discussions by Shelby

Hello! I didn't realize

When should we get our marriage license? A week before? Sooner? And when do I start the name change process?

So my bio dad who has had 0 involvement my whole life is causing drama without even being involved. He has manipulated my grandmother and also my Grandaddy (who is already kind of an ass) into...

Has anyone had a combined bachelor/bachelorette party? I only have 2 girls in my bridal party, and he has 3 GM. Me and FH aren't big party goers, we are parents to a 4 year old and work all the time...

I know WW is quick to announce when something is tacky, but I'm unsure how to handle this. I'm a charge nurse at a LTC facility who works 13 hour shifts, I have a lot of co workers (aides and...

At midnight we are T-minus one month away!!!! It's going to fly by!!

Is it weird to register for furniture? We've lived together the last 5 years and the only things I've really added to my registry is furniture. Like end tables, bookshelf, coffee table, wall shelves,...

Well, all but one, my sister. I originally asked 4 girls to be part of my bridal party. My sister, and 3 best friends. During the last 5 months they've all found out they are pregnant. Which is great!...

At what point do you start contacting the people who haven't RSVP'd? I put May 21st as the deadline on my invitation. Do I start calling after the deadline or like the day before or what?

June brides, we can officially start saying "I'm getting married next month!" So exciting! And congrats to the May brides who are getting married THIS month! I just had to squeeze a little excitement...

This is more a blowing off steam post than anything else. My mom had originally told us that she would be paying for our venue. It wasn't ridiculously expensive, and they covered all decor, tables,...

I went for my final fitting today (yay!) and I asked my seamstress about a bustle and she said the way my dress was styled she wouldn't be able to bustle it. It has a loop under the train she said I...

I got my first RSVP yesterday and I just sent out my invites this past Wednesday. Bliss! And my grandma text me earlier asking when a good day would be for a bridal shower for me. I didn't expect a...

I remember hearing on a local radio station not too long ago about a company that believes marriage should be FOREVER and will pay up to $10,000 for your wedding! The only catch is that you...

I know the most important part of my wedding is actually getting married to my husband, but I have a history of being let down by guests and I'm afraid of it happening on my wedding. For my baby...

It's getting real you guys! I stopped by the post office on lunch today and dropped off my invites! (Which happened to weigh EXACTLY 1 oz) thank the lord. Lol now it's crunch time. Gotta start getting...

I don't have a lot of friends.. My sister, and my 2 best friends were all to be my Bridesmaids. Well, so far they all have gotten pregnant during my engagement (which is great), and my one best friend...