Discussions by Sara

We're 3 months out! Today is 3/15, and our wedding is 6/15! I'm not sure if we're in a good spot as far as planning... what do you think? Here's the status: Overall organization: we have a budget...

Hi all! So I recently came across the term "bridechilla" (I suppose a modern replacement attempt for "bridezilla"). A Bridechilla is bride who is so seemingly relaxed about everything that she...

Did your FH pick a wedding ring yet? What does it look like?!

Hey all! We're working on our "day-of-wedding" timeline, and my FH and I hit a big point of difference - first looks! He thinks a first look is just about the craziest thing he has ever heard of (he...

Hi all! When people put the time of a wedding on their invites, do they infer that this is the time that guests should arrive, or that this is the time the ceremony will be starting? If I write "5:30"...

Hi all! We booked the most amazing venue that I'm so, so excited about. However, lack of communication with the venue director has me STRESSED. We sent him our contract and deposit in late November...

Hi all! Our wedding is June 15, 2019. We told everyone the date, and did not do Save the Dates. We are ordering invites this week. When should we make the RSVP date? The hotel reservation block goes...

Hi all! We've decided we don't want any stuff on our registry. My FH and I live together in a small Brooklyn apartment with 3 roommates. We're minimalists and although I'd love some new stuff, there...

I'm on a major budget for my wedding, including the dress (budget is like $500 total for the whole outfit). I recently discovered custom inexpensive wedding dresses, some from independent...

Is it foolish to forego the hair/make-up trial? I just don't see it as being necessary. I don't want to pay extra money, travel an extra time to the town of our wedding venue, and go through the extra...

I should have set up my hotel block a while ago, but I'm having some issues. A lot of friends and family have expressed an interest in getting a hotel room (probably 25 rooms, but I don't know). I...

Hi all! We've asked a friend to be our officiant. My FH is a professional classical singer (opera tenor) and so we asked one of our good friends (who is also our roommate and also an opera baritone)...

So I keep flip-flopping between "no kids" and "kids" at our wedding. Can the answer be "some kids"? The wedding is the Saturday before Father's day, and I know some out of town relatives will not be...

If you had a bridesmaid back out, did your relationship change? One of my bridesmaids told me last night that she can't financially afford to be in my wedding. I understand... but not really. She's...

Hey all, I just wanted to recommend this book. FH and I (We're not married yet, wedding date is next summer) have been together for nearly 8 years, and we've had some interesting challenges, and this...

Hey all! I found a helpful article for determining the size of your cake....

What's your color scheme? How did you decide on it- did the type of venue, time of year, theme, or other factors influence your decision?

Hi all! We recently set our wedding date for 6/15/19, and I'm not certain that we're going to send save-the-dates. It just seems redundant to me to send save-the-dates and invites when the wedding is...