Discussions by QueSeraSera

Hey all, I'm back. Now as a sister of the bride. My sister doesn't believe me when I tell her the bride doesn't ask for bach parties and bridal showers, and she thinks the bridesmaids are supposed to...

So I have several people that sent/gave us money through my parents. Some were invited and came to the wedding. Others just gave money even if they weren't invited because "that's how it's done"...

When changing my last name, do I have to go to the SSA office in the county of my permanent address or can I go to any location? I never changed the address on my license or at the banks or for...

So I always ignored these threads when other people posted them because I didn't think it'd happen to me / I didn't understand why anyone would feel sad after their wedding, BUT IT'S LEGIT. I've been...

Our 2nd payment for our photographer is due today. I emailed her a few days ago asking how she wanted the payment (check, credit card) No reply So I called her today but she didn't pick up. The first...

I asked our venue if they would take off the cost of alcohol for the kids that are eating adult meals, and they said no. We're pretty angry about this. These 10-year-olds are obviously not drinking...

Is it possible to bustle your own dress? I don't think anyone can make it to my final fitting and learn how to do the bustle

We're having a hard time finding a large enough cupcake stand. All the ones we've found are tiny / made for homes / would fit maybe 15 cupcakes at most. We're getting bundtinis from Nothing Bundt...

We've started getting RSVPs back (online) And we're only inviting relatives children & BP children. And a few of them have chosen adult meals instead of the kids meals! So we are now paying for these...

So my FMIL is hosting / paying for our rehearsal dinner All the usuals will be there (parents, officiant & wife, BP & SOs) But she also wants to invite FH's cousins & their families who will be flying...

Some of you may remember my post about finding a brain tumor (named Richard) a couple months ago! Well I just had it taken out on the 21st! I am 1.5 weeks post-op and doing great! Here's my update! --...

So.. my FMIL gave me her old veil with white flower crown and her lace bridal gloves that go up to your elbows (Cinderella style but fingerless!). It's all very 80s. I imagine she saved them for her...

I'm on my 3rd one/ 3rd MUA. It's hard to find someone who can do other ethnicities! Even after showing them pictures. How many did you do?...

So my dress shop had my dress rush ordered due to the original shipping date being around my surgery date and it's in!!!! They said I'd pay for the alterations at the first fitting. Is that normal?? I...

I just want to say I got some good news today. My dress was scheduled to arrive around the same time as my surgery, so I contacted them to let them know what was going on and to see if there would be...

Some of you may know I recently found out I have a tumor in my brain. Well I'm slightly freaking out about the timing of everything. They said I'll know my surgery date by the end of the week; I'm...