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My FH wants to wear a fedora at our wedding. The ceremony is in a church so he wouldn't wear it for that but for our first look pictures and reception he would have it. My mom says this is "silly",...

I am very set on having a first look but my family is adamant about keeping with tradition and they say I will regret it. Has anyone that has done a first look regretted it?

My mom's side of the family thinks I should open the gifts I get at the wedding reception but I feel that's awkward and make the reception feel like a birthday party. Is it rude to open them? Is it...

Is it rude to ask that no photos be taken during my ceremony? I have seen pictures that have been ruined by flashes or people getting in the way. Any professional photographers with advice would be...

I have trouble spending extra money on something that people will just wipe the mouths on to just have my name on it. Thoughts? Does anyone think it's worth the money?

I am all the way sweetheart table but my FH wants a head table. Are there any advantages to a head table that I don't know about? I really want a sweetheart because I would get alone time with my...

We are up to 200 now and I am thinking since most of them are 5+ hours away that a lot won't come. But I was talking to a friend and she said that I should plan for only 15% not to come. Are the...