I'm a Victorian-drama and cat lover.; a poet and gamer; and not to mention a career-obsessed counselor with a quirky oddities collection. I'm a bit... View More

I'm a Victorian-drama and cat lover.; a poet and gamer; and not to mention a career-obsessed counselor with a quirky oddities collection. I'm a bit amazing I found this great guy who said yes for the rest of our lives!

Happily married 🎉

April 12, 2019

961days 11hrs


What did you do to make a cohesive style?
Nikita in Style and Décor, on August 14, 2019 at 9:04 AM

Hi guys, I love seeing everyone's styles and themes. How are you infusing your vision into your wedding and personalize it to you and hour future spouse? Decor, favors, fashion? I'd love to see pics!...

Courtney, Aug 15, 2019 20 155
Job Hunting after the Wedding
Nikita in Married Life, on June 19, 2019 at 4:57 PM

So, I had a funny situation happen today. I was called for a local government job interview. The initial exam was back in December, so I really haven't thought much about it. But when I got called in,...

Nikita, Jul 5, 2019 4 202
bam Married 4.12.2019
Nikita in Married Life, on May 28, 2019 at 8:47 AM

Centerpieces & Bouquet Philadelphia Wedding ChapelBelmont PlateauBelmont Plateau (2)Elfreth's AlleyMenu & CenterpieceBrie BitesAppetizer TriangesMenu and favorsGuestbookFirst DanceHead...

Nikita, May 29, 2019 37 386
Venting - More family stuff
Nikita in Family and Relationships, on March 18, 2019 at 9:40 AM

Again, I'm venting on here. Sorry everyone. This is really long... This past Saturday, while my FH was off at his bachelor party weekend, I thought it would be a great time to get my favors and...

Nikita, Apr 17, 2019 14 413
3 days left.. Making my bouquets
Nikita in Do It Yourself, on April 9, 2019 at 1:32 PM

I have three days left and put together my succulent bouquets. What are people's thoughts? Do they look okay?

Nikita, Apr 10, 2019 32 521
30 days to go...
Nikita in Community Conversations, on March 13, 2019 at 10:01 AM

I've finally hit my 30 day out mark. I'm not sure if excited is the right word for it, but definitely feeling the daily count now. How's everyone else doing?

Mrs. C, Mar 19, 2019 46 309
Family Drama Landmine Ahead
Nikita in Family and Relationships, on March 6, 2019 at 8:40 AM

So, I already had a bit if social navigation to do with my wedding (don't we all?). My father is transgender, and most of my family has cut her off. The no-contact is due to some other reasons, but...

Cassie, Mar 7, 2019 13 418
Thoughts on timeline
Nikita in Planning, on February 15, 2019 at 9:23 AM

Hi guys! So, I wanted your thoughts on my timeline: 6:00 - Doors open 6:15 - Bridal party introduced 6:20 - Welcome speech 6:25 - Mother-son dance 6:30 - first dance 6:35 - Dance floor opens 7:00 -...

Nikita, Feb 15, 2019 9 114
60 day mark
Nikita in Community Conversations, on February 13, 2019 at 10:49 AM

Yesterday was the 60 day mark, and I had my mini-freakout. I can say, I'm so glad I've been on WW throughout this process, because I've seen other brides talk about it, and really helped ground me!...

Brittany, Feb 13, 2019 6 64
Amazon Wedding Registry currently offline
Nikita in Registry, on January 24, 2019 at 1:47 PM

Hi guys, this will probably be fixed in an hour or two, but as an fyi for any Type A brides, the Amazon registry is currently down. Their TS department is working on fixing the problem.

Daphine, Jan 28, 2019 4 48
Thoughts on beverages
Nikita in Planning, on January 9, 2019 at 2:00 PM

I'm beginning my tallies for the DIY drinks. Our catering has tea and coffee provided. Thus far we're also planning on providing: beer, a sweet and dry wine, 2 signature drinks (old fashioned/gin...

Sherry, Jan 9, 2019 21 180
The online shopping bride
Nikita in Planning, on January 7, 2019 at 2:21 PM

When I began my wedding planning, I kept hearing a lot of "don't buy online" because obviously, you can't tell the quality until it comes in. I've been, way more than I expected, an online shopping...

Nikita, Jan 8, 2019 41 391
"the one moments"
Nikita in Community Conversations, on January 6, 2019 at 4:46 PM

I'm in a storytelling/nostalgic type of mood today. Did you have a "the one" or "my FS could be the one" moments? Mine had nothing to do with me. My FH had finished up vending at a craft show, and we...

Nikita, Jan 7, 2019 23 242
Reception timing
Nikita in Wedding Reception, on December 11, 2018 at 7:56 AM

Hi everyone, so recently I've been second-guessing my reception length and would like some outside perspective. FH and I initially planned for only 3 hours. I know this is shorter than typical, but we...

Nikita, Dec 12, 2018 31 356
Happy moment-buster = family
Nikita in Family and Relationships, on October 30, 2018 at 11:38 AM

So yesterday I'm on the phone with my mother. My dress came in and I should be ecstatic right!? We had it custom made and it went to her house, so Sunday when we go to a bridal expo, she's bringing it...

Nikita, Oct 30, 2018 4 290
Venting: My side
Nikita in Family and Relationships, on August 27, 2018 at 9:48 AM

I will start by saying, I love my future in-laws. They are loving, accepting, big & boisterous. They really showed me how to even have a healthy family dynamic... then we get to my side. I'm...

Nikita, Aug 27, 2018 3 194
Fancy custom proposal box as bridal party gift?
Nikita in Etiquette and Advice, on August 21, 2018 at 8:44 AM

Hi guys, Since I wouldn't use the items in a traditional bridal proposal box, I'm putting one together that matches the wedding style. Since we're doing a city hall wedding (reception the following...

Nikita, Aug 21, 2018 9 117
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