Discussions by MisRed

Https://www.thrillist.com/news/nation/groomsmen-spend-more-than-bridesmaids-according-to-a-gobankingrates-survey I'm not a lover of Thrillist yet for some reason I still follow them on Facebook....

We have been married for all of 12 days and now we're making the next HUGE step! We're moving to NEW ZEALAND! We got our visas and we told our bosses. I told my boss quite some time ago because she...

I'm not changing my last name. I'm changing my middle name to his last name but career wise it makes no sense to change my last name. Also, I like it. Anyway, it seems weird to be introduced as Mr....

I was thinking that near the ceremony area (the whole thing is happening all in one place) I'll have a sign that says "Please take a seat on either side and don't forget to find a place for that phone...

So my FMIL informed me that my MOH is supposed to give a toast at my rehearsal dinner AND wedding but that if my MOH feels like she only has "one in her" that it should be given at the rehearsal...

I really wanted an slow, string version of "Tell Her About It" to be my processional song. A) I love it and B) it's kinda funny if you're a fan and know what the song is. But honest to God, bless...

I don't know. I don't care. But I am in the middle of last minute wedding prep and my phone won't make or receive calls. Verzion's site keeps telling me to call them because their chat services are...

Has anyone ever made their own veil? Tips, tricks, or pics? My dress is floral so I'm making my own so it actually matches as white won't work. What kind of tulle do I need? I bought some but it's...

Has anyone ever attempted to swing dance at their wedding in a long dress? I imagine a short dress is really the way to go, but that's not my style. Has anyone seen it work with a bustled dress? What...

My mom recently asked me who my host families will be. Apparently this is kind of the norm when you have a nontraditional wedding. (Our ceremony, cocktails, and reception will all be at the same...

I've been looking into videographers. We initially agreed we didn't need it, but somewhere along the lines that changed for FH. I guess he asked his dad for wedding advice and all FFIL said was, "get...

We're supposed to leave to suit shop in 20 minutes. It was FH job to make this happen. A few minutes ago I checked in to make sure each of the appointments he set up are places that do rentals. He...

I've learned a ton here about wedding etiquette and I'm beyond appreciative. So how do you deal with being on the receiving end of it? I just got a save the date from a family member but it doesn't...

I've seen gorgeous pictures of them. I've heard ladies get excited about having them. But, seriously, how do you light the candles in your hanging lanterns? They're suspended from trees, more often...

Ghostbusters is the obvious answer but I'm thinking not the right one. We are having our wedding in a family friend's backyard. She lives right outside of city limits. I asked the city if I need...

Ladies! Where can I get used decorations? As much as I love BHLDN that's just not going to happen. We're looking for draping material for the ceremony and a photo backdrop mostly. Maybe aisle stuff....

I've never dealt with renting suits before, neither has my FH. We've bought two and that's just about it. It seems like we have to go with a national retailer if we have groomsmen around the country,...