Discussions by Lory

So I will try to make this short. My fiancé and I have separate bank accounts and we plan on keeping it that way until we decide to have kids and I stay at home for a little while after. He makes a...

Recessional song. Are you using an upbeat or sweet song? Throw me your ideas!

I’m hiring a close co worker and her cosmetologist friend to do hair and makeup. I want to pay her fairly, what are you all paying and do you pay for the trial?? Thank you!

I needs ideas! What are you using for the mother Son Dance??

How many of you sent invitations to your bridesmaids/groomsmen?

We’re doing engagement photos in 1 month, beach themed as we loooove the beach! I’m not one to wear dresses or shorts, I like jeans and nice shirts. I’m willing to go a little out of my comfort zone...

Do you give gifts to bridesmaids & groomsmen for only a proposal or do they get gifts the day of the wedding as well?

Those of you that had difficulty agreeing on a first dance song, how did you narrow it down to a final decision!?!?

So a friend of mine is doing my hair and makeup on my wedding day but also bringing her cosmetologist friend who I’ve also met. I know it is all based on how quickly they can work but I’m curious how...

If you and your FH have been dating for 10 years before marriage, when asked how long you’ve been married, what would your response be? I feel like that’s a lot of detail to just leave out 😁

So I’ve mainly lived with my mom and step dad since I was 3. My real dad has never really stepped up and took care of me but obviously he’s my dad, I love him and he loves me. Now the two of them have...

Do you use the same photographer for your engagement and wedding photos? Does it give you a chance before you hire them? Or do you hire locally for engagement photos?

So FH and I decided on REO speedwagon “keep on loving you” for our first dance, we wanted something you don’t hear often and he loves 80’s music. However the first 30-60 seconds of the song it talks...

So I want both my dad and step dad to walk me down the isle. I think it would look weird holding a bouquet or look weird not hold anything? I feel with a bouquet in my hand would look full and...

When letting your bridesmaids pick their own style dress with limitations to long dresses and same colors , would you rather have them all be different, have 2 out of 5 girls pick the same dress or...

I’m really having a hard time dealing with the thoughts in my head over this. Back story: so FH and I have been together for 9 years. I’m 23 and he is 25. We just got engaged in January and our date...

Does anyone have any tips of where to start when deciding who you want to invite? The thought over whelmes me. Deciding through both families and making sure no one gets left out?? I dont know where...