Discussions by FutureMrsUpdike

I plan to wear an elbow length single tiered veil until after ceremony. I also have a simple tiara type band that I plan to wear flat. I found a hair clip that has two fabric flowers with feathers...

Who is doing theirs together? My wedding is weekend after mothers day so I wanted to do a shower in March and the bach party first weekend in May. My MOH wants to throw one together to save money, but...

Do they even say this anymore? My parents have been divorced for 23 years and have both been remarried however it is important to me that if they do this question I want my dad to say her mother and I...

How many months ahead do you usually go do a trial with your hair dresser?!

My FH says he doesnt want her at the wedding. They havent spoken for 9 months but I still feel I should send an invitation. Maybe I shouldn't? I think deep down he wants her there but he said he wants...

I saw some really cute ring boxes on Etsy. They latch so I thought it might be better for my 2 yr old to carry down? Also what kind of "fake" rings should I put in there? Or should I risk real ones?...

An unforseen medical emergency came up and my fiance and I had to fork into our wedding savings and remove 3k. We have six months until our wedding and should be able to replenish it, but if not our...

Im getting married in May and last june my cousin and I went to the bridal shop to price out dresses. I told all my girls to budget a max of 200$. Set up an appointment in September for all the...

Has anyone steamed their own dress? Also my fiance pickes up my veil from shop and smoked in the car and it went thru the bag If I hang it up the smell will eventually fade right? I dont want to ruin...

Ive seen a lot of couples doing fun entrances at the reception with their wedding party. Are they doing the grand march later into the dance or nixing it all together?

When do couples typically cut the cake? Do they usually plat a song while doing it?

How soon before the wedding do you send out invites, we dont have too many out of town guests. Also my gma has 15 brothers and sisters so if I send an invite to each does that include their children...

I want her to wear something nice. I keep sending her pictures of dresses at 100$ and under. She keeps saying she will get something from jcpenny or kohls. I said thats fine but I want to see...

His mother hasnt spoken to either of us for 9 months and on top of that has spread nasty rumors to turn others against us. I guess I should invite them being family and all. How do we go about telling...