Discussions by FutureMrsUpdike

Everything was wonderful. My FH didnt make rehearsal because of some unpaid ticket warrant we weren't aware of until he got pulled over on way to the church. So my bridesmaids husband had to stand in...

3 days to go and its just the last minute details. I cant wait. I made a wooden ring box for rings but debating on if I should leave empty or put put rings in them. We have 3 ring bearers (my two boys...

Did anyone have a stepmother? My pastor said the mothers are seated after the guests and prior to the bridal party. Im wondering if I should include my stepmother. She has been married to my dad for...

Yesterday I received an email from this girl who claimed to get pregnant by my fiance last year. She is an ex wife of a friend of mine and a total nut job. Well, things like that get you thinking. She...

My wedding is 15 days away. The guys had a tux appt in March and because of work schedules only groom and one guy could make it. The other 3 made arrangements to get fitted. The lady called today and...

Even when I dream. I am down to a paper list of things I need to purchase. I got a jewelry set, wooden hanger, and vinyl names for hanger for my girls. I found a zippo listing on Etsy that is 5 for...

My dad called the other day to let me know my stepmom wouldnt be attending because my mom would be there. My parents have been divorced for 24 years. My dad remarried to my stepmother 17 years ago....

My wedding is a day short of 2 months away and i recently learned that one bridesmaid hasnt paid her second half for dress. its 80$. All dresses came in end of January. I keep telling her to go...

I am considering not doing a garter toss. My husband isnt a big fan of crowds and we will have close to 200 in attendance. I dont think he will be comfortable doing one and I am fine with it. I also...

Im struggling to decide what to do. I have seen a lot of very neat first look sessions and it seems alright. Timewise it would give more time with guests if we didnt have a lot of photos afterwards....

My dad is singing a couple of songs for my wedding. One is "Kiss me" by Ed Sheeran the acoustic version. I gave the info to my dad a month ago and today after church I asked if he had the chance to...

My MOH stopped by yesterday and asked me if I had any requests for anything specific. I told her to surprise me...Did you have anything you would change about your shower?

My bridesmaid just sent me this picture with a dark spot on the front of her dress. We just picked them up last Saturday from shop and she tried it on but we never inspected it. She says she hasnt...

Who rolls out and when? We arent having Ushers, Im having groomsmen usher people in.Trying to figure out who ushers my mom and stepmom in? I was only going to have flower girl and myself walk on aisle...

My grandfather passed away in June and my Step-grandmother has since started dating. I like the guy and he will be attending my wedding. I have limited seating at the Reserve table for...

My mom is getting married in a couple weeks and I am her MOH. I have been helping her plan while still planning mine. I have a lot of stuff done, just last minute stuff left pretty much. I have been...

Are you having one? My FH says he doesnt want to.

Are you putting a stamp on RSVPs? My gma said she has gotten some before with no stamp and she didnt think it was rude. I will be putting our website info on RSVP card so people who are internet users...

Do you invite all females on your wedding guest list to this event?

Do you send invites to your wedding party attendants?