Discussions by FutureFuji

I've been hearing that roughly 10% of the people invited to the wedding say they can't attend. I was wondering how accurate that was? Also, did you ladies have any no-shows? We were originally going...

I know this is based on personal budget and knowing your crowd, but I'm wondering how many of you would switch from open bar beer and wine to full open bar for an additional $700. It would be...

Anyone else having this issue? I know it's not proper etiquette to put "adults only" on the invitation so we listed it on our wedding website which was on a details card sent with the invites. I had a...

I invited my two cousins and their girlfriends to the wedding, but they can't tell me they are 100% attending... one cousin told me they were 85% sure but never know with work as they could get called...

Cause I kinda want both... is it silly to have both? I've seen it at other weddings so I never thought much about it until reading some posts on here about having one or the other. Thanks in advance! ...

Hey Ladies and Gents, I searched for similar posts but didn't find any recent ones. My MOH and I are going to Cancun and staying at the Grand Oasis Cancun all-inclusive resort for 3 nights, leaving in...

Hey Brides and Grooms! I have asked the vendors what they would like for an entree but I'm wondering do you normally offer a meal to the florist? I'm assuming yes but have to ask because I don't know...

Going to bring my veil and shoes. I want the seamstress to add in cups so I hopefully don't have to wear a bra, perhaps I'll bring a strapless one just in case? Also, should I be looking up bustles...

Haven't been posting on here much lately but need some reassurance. I feel like I'm planning this wedding entirely alone and FH and I have been fighting a lot because of all the stress. I have planned...

I had a dream last night that it was my wedding day and I forgot to send out the invitations! It's going to be a long year with dreams like that. Anyone else have any bizarre wedding nightmares? Share...

I absolutely love live music... Who doesn't? I've never been to a wedding with a live band so I can't envision how they play some of the "classic" wedding songs that we may want to play at our...

Is it the officiant? DOC? I have no idea. And do we just rehearse how the ceremony will go? Seems straightforward yet I'm so lost.

So I am planning on taking 3 weeks in October for our wedding/honeymoon. I'm trying to figure out if I will need the entire week off before and take 2 weeks for the HM or just take the 3 weeks after...

I know everyone's budget is different, just trying to get a rough estimate on how much people spend on this. Thanks!

Ladies! So I made wine labels with cute personalized pictures and gave them to 3 of my bridesmaids. I'm going to see my fourth and final BM on Saturday. She doesn't drink, so I didn't make her a wine...

I should've asked you guys first before I even did this. So we booked the photographer in May and I've been making monthly payments towards our bill which will be paid off by the wedding. We didn't...

I'm pretty sure you feed your vendors, am I right? Do you normally count them into the guest count for catering purposes?

Hey ladies, FH and I are going to visit my parents in California at the end of June. They live in an RV and are not stuck in one location, so everyone is leaving the decision up to me (who's never...