Discussions by Brenda

I’m trying to finish up my invitations but am not sure what to put for the ceremony start time. (All my vendors knew the ceremony time would be sometime between 3-4pm so their schedules are not an...

Did anyone have people that straight up never answered you, even after reaching out? My FH has a cousin who just never responds and we are over a week past the RSVP date. What’s weird about this...

My FH is really into beer so we’re planning to do growlers (wine bottle sized) with fairy lights. Since the opening of the bottle is small I’m not sure what to do with the battery pack. Has anyone...

I was thinking of getting my BMs and bridesman a written thank you card, something small-ish as a physical gift but then a gift card to a nice restaurant (in their area), favorite store or spa as...

I’m not sure I want to bother purchasing a ring bearer pillow. Would it be weird that he doesn’t have one or is it something people won’t notice? The last wedding I went to that had a ring bearer I...

I’m still deciding about favors but if I do them will do something edible. I’m leaning toward cookies but wasn’t sure which cookies are better as a favor. I’ve seen the iced cookies that look like...

I'm currently working on finishing up my addresses for my invites (I'm using Minted). My FH has a cousin that is having a baby sometime in February and by then I'll already have the invitations...

What are everyone's thoughts on cloth napkins with plastic plates and utensils?

I'm having a hard time figuring out when I should have my makeup and hair finished before the ceremony starts. I'm not planning on a "first look" but will probably do some "getting ready" photos. When...