Discussions by Bergkirk

Is it me...BUT...if you have a VERY tiny apartment, you come home after a long day 7pm (your husband has been home since 5:30pm) is it too much to ask for your husband to be out of the kitchen when...

Would love to know how others handle this. My husband currently makes twice as much money as me and expects me to split bills down the middle and pay. (EXCEPT, He does pick up the meal bills when we...

This is such an awkward thing...And I know that people don't have to give a gift if they don't want to. However, what if they did send one or give one and you didn't receive it? What is the etiquette?...

I have no idea if this is something you do or not? THANKS!

What do most people do with their dress after their wedding? Preserve it? (How do you do that?) Sell it? (Where on what?) Just curious? Thanks!!

Any thoughts on this or suggestions? What does it ususally cost? Don't have a CLUE?? THANKS!!

I can't have a runner during the ceremony...So do I bustle the dress Or just say screw it and leave the train during the ceremony? My concern is once I do bustle it, it will look all dirty in the...

Just curious? Do you get them a gift? And how much do you spend if you do?

How does this work? Or do you give them their gift bags the rehearsal dinner? Or just give everyone their gift bags at the rehearsal dinner? So confused!! thnx

Looking for any suggestions from anyone who knows anyone!! thnx!

I am trying to figure out what is a good price and wondering what people are paying for their consultation day and for the wedding day! Wondering what they are charging for just hair and just makeup...

What are you spending on your flowers and your bridesmaid's flowers?

I just had my shower this weekend? Can I wait until after the wedding to send thank you for shower? I am getting a married in 27 days!! Eeekkk!!

OK...my first drama was when I went to go for my first dress fitting there was a fabric pucker on the side of the dress...(It was an imperfection in the dress) however the seamstress was trying to...

OK...this is probably a silly question, but if you are a couple do you give two gift bags or one? I planned to for each gift bag - two bottles of waters, homemade cookies, map of area and activities...

Who do you actually get flowers for for the wedding? Bride/Bride'smaids for sure... My fiance does not want to wear a boutonniere...he said men don't wear flowers. lol Do you get one for the reader?...

I have been doing a little research and the most inexpensive one's I have found is from Oriental Trading Co. online. $19.99 for candle, $6.99 shipping. Any other suggestions? Geeezee...

The first time I will see them all together is the shower...Can I give them the gifts after the shower when everyone is gone? The next time I will see them all together is the night before...but by...

Help! In order to stay in budget we plan to have 75 people to wedding. However, should we go lower we pay the same price. Invitations went out June 15 and I have now found out that I underestimated...

Hi, I have some extra space left to invite people to the wedding and my FH does not want me to invite a male friend of mine. This male friend has just got engaged himself and I am afraid he will...