Discussions by Becky

My FH and I have had a hard time picking a song, and yesterday he suggested Queen's "You're my best friend". I love that song, and the words are perfect, but don't you think it's not slow enough to...

I have worked with him for almost 17 years...and we've been friends the whole time. I was dating my ex-husband when I first started at my job, and eventually married him. And my FH had a live-in...

I am finally at the stage where I can take a breath and get excited, instead of stressing about all that needs to be done (oh, believe me, there is still LOTS to be done!). I cannot wait to marry my...

I know we feed the DJ & photographer, but does the officiant stay for dinner? It's not a priest or anyone that is close with our family....just someone that was recommended to us.

We both are big Billy Joel, Chicago, and Eagles fans...but we are having problems finding a good "first dance" song from any of them. Either the melody is great, but the words are depressing (Eagles'...

Of course, the entire bridal party is invited, I know. Who else? Spouses of bridal party, parents of bride & groom....anyone else?

I am still a bundle of nerves trying to get everything done, but over the last week, I have gotten sooooo much accomplished, so I can breathe again and I can finally be excited to marry my best...

Reading that post about garters made me think...for those of you that bought a garter that was cutom made, like I want to get a Dodger one, are you tossing a cheap one for the garter toss? I want to...

I have 2 questions....how many rose petals do you think I will need for my aisle. I wish I had measurements to give you, but let's just say it's probably about half the size of a church aisle. My...

I have most of the "big" stuff taken care of, but here's my shopping list of things to do....I need encouragement ladies!!! I need to get all this done asap! Here it is: Find an offician t (kinda...

What are you all giving? That is on my to-do list & I am not coming up with anything creative! I really wanted to do a "personal" gift for each, but there are 2 of them that I can't come up with...

My busiest time at work is the first 2 weeks of the month....just non-stop stuff to do, and deadlines all before the 15th. But I have so many other things on my mind (I stopped doing a report to post...

I'm freaking out a little, knowing that I can say that my wedding is NEXT month! I still have soooo much to do! Yikes! I need to take a deep breath now......

My brain is mush with all the things I have to do, so please help me ladies! My bridesmaids are wearing black dresses and we will all have red bouquets. What color tuxes should the guys wear? And does...

We are doing things backwards, because we started planning our wedding about a month ago, and I finally got my ring tonight! It is beautiful & even though I knew it was coming, he still did a romantic...

We are going to an all-inclusive resort in Cabo. I can't wait! I've never been to Mexico before

I need ideas. I know this sounds weird, but I have lovebird & baseball themes going on (it kinda morphed into that, since I gave myself only 3 months to plan!). I found some cute lovebird necklaces...

FH and I have discussing the vows, and I am terrified about public speaking, although I would really love to say all the things I love about him to him. And FH says he just wants the "traditional"...

I like traditions, and to me a fun traditon at weddings is to smash the piece of cake in your spouse's face. Just gently, like a little frosting on the nose or upper lip...very playful. I've seen some...

So, I went to DB to get a quote for alterations (I had gone to a small bridal shop that quoted me $450) last night. My dress has appliques at the bottom, which requires them to un-stitch them...