Discussions from AshelyJ. in WeddingWire

Who is supposed to throw your bachelorette and bridal shower?

AshelyJ. in Etiquette and Advice, on March 13, 2017 at 3:35 PM

I thought the MOH was supposed to do both? Or do you throw your own? My sister is my MOH, but her idea of a fun bridal shower and bachelorette party isn't the same as mine. So how does it work? Thank...

Diane, Jan 17, 2020 24 4,401

Maid of honor trouble

AshelyJ. in Planning, on March 2, 2017 at 1:41 PM

So I had originally asked my sis to be my MOH. Her and I aren't very close, but I thought morally it's the right thing to do. My best friend has been going above and beyond to help me plan my wedding....

Kats2742, Apr 14, 2019 22 402

Plus ones

AshelyJ. in Planning, on September 21, 2017 at 12:01 PM

I have people attending our wedding bringing a plus one, they just haven't picked their plus one yet. What names do I put on the seating chart if they don't pick one till day of?

Padilla, Sep 22, 2017 13 52

Bridal shower/bachelorette drama

AshelyJ. in Etiquette and Advice, on September 11, 2017 at 11:01 PM

So my sister "offered" to throw me a bridal shower and bachelorette party. I know we aren't entitled to them, so I was happy that someone was. We get married in 6 weeks and EVERYONE is asking me for...

muriel, Sep 11, 2017 4 45

50 days from today!!!!!

AshelyJ. in Community Conversations, on September 7, 2017 at 6:55 PM

We get married in 50 days!!! So excited and nervous!!! Who else is right around the corner!! So excited to be his wife, say I do, and party!

Ashley, Sep 7, 2017 6 38

How long does a dress take to get altered?

AshelyJ. in Style and Décor, on August 9, 2017 at 5:44 PM

I dropped off my dress 3 months ago to get altered. My mother insisted my godmother do my dress, so I took it to her. She is only taking the dress up two inches. We are not taking it in or fixing...

AshelyJ., Aug 10, 2017 23 9,933

Bridesmaid is out I'm 99% sure *update

AshelyJ. in Etiquette and Advice, on July 7, 2017 at 11:37 AM

I had posted a while back about how my bridesmaid/best friend is dating this guy who is just awful. He's physically abusive, controlling, narcissist. They broke up for a while and she was seeing other...

Jacks, Jul 8, 2017 75 114

On the verge of a mental breakdown!

AshelyJ. in Planning, on June 8, 2017 at 12:22 PM

I'm on the verge on breaking down. I have posted before about how I don't get along with my mother or sister. I took another road in life, and because of that they judge me and look down on me....

AshelyJ., Jun 8, 2017 9 27

Tip vendors day of?

AshelyJ. in Etiquette and Advice, on June 1, 2017 at 11:50 AM

On the day of the wedding, do you tip your vendors that day? Or do you send them a nice thank you card with their tip?

Cecilia, Jun 3, 2017 21 27

Today is not my day. VENT!

AshelyJ. in Planning, on May 22, 2017 at 2:24 PM

I'm not excited about my wedding anymore. I'm excited to marry my FH, but my family has completely taken the fun right out of this whole party. The drama that comes between my mom and my sister has...

SSJKarigan, May 22, 2017 14 32

Treat table!

AshelyJ. in Planning, on May 17, 2017 at 7:16 PM

For our wedding we are having an assortment of different treats for our guest. I would really love to add my grandmothers brownies. She will be at the wedding, and I know it would just make her day. I...

Michelle, May 18, 2017 7 25

Wedding gift!

AshelyJ. in Etiquette and Advice, on April 10, 2017 at 1:58 PM

My friend is getting married in June. She is not having a wedding ceremony/reception/courthouse. They are having their roommate (who is ordained) marry them, then they are jet setting around the...

ElSyd, Apr 28, 2017 8 19

What are our FH wearing the day of?

AshelyJ. in Style and Décor, on April 27, 2017 at 6:54 PM

My fiancé wanted to wear all black. So we decided on black pants, shirt, tie, and vest. To tie him into the bridal party, all the men are wearing a rose gold tie clip. Is that acceptable? Should he...

Sarah H., Apr 27, 2017 25 94

Formal or informal?

AshelyJ. in Etiquette and Advice, on April 21, 2017 at 7:37 PM

So I'm at a wedding currently (it hasn't started) and I'm probably the most formal dressed here, everyone is in flower dresses. Now the wedding is in Scottsdale Az, which is an expensive area. My...

KittyPrawn, Apr 21, 2017 7 54

DOC

AshelyJ. in Planning, on April 11, 2017 at 6:41 PM

I wasn't going to have a DOC, but after reading a few of the forums I decided to look into it more. I have emailed a handful of people, that I have found off WW and NO ONE has gotten back to me. It...

Laura, Apr 12, 2017 9 31

BM wants a +1.

AshelyJ. in Etiquette and Advice, on April 7, 2017 at 7:41 PM

One of my bridesmaids has this awful on/off bf. They have been broken up the past few months, but just got back together a month ago. He's a narcissist. He has physically and emotionally hurt her on...

Celia Milton, Apr 7, 2017 17 29

Horrible wedding dreams!!!!

AshelyJ. in Planning, on April 5, 2017 at 2:36 PM

I had a dream a few weeks back that no one attended our wedding!!! That everyone RSVP'd but no one attended. Last night I had another dream, that my mom moved our wedding date up a month, but didn't...

Ann, Apr 6, 2017 20 239

Cake/dessert Dilemma

AshelyJ. in Planning, on April 5, 2017 at 8:59 PM

I live in Phoenix, AZ. We are getting married in Prescott, which is an hour and 20 minutes away. I have asked a baker in Phoenix to prepare dessert and a small cake for our wedding. I was going to...

LauraR, Apr 5, 2017 14 32

Alcohol Issue!

AshelyJ. in Planning, on April 3, 2017 at 12:44 PM

So we are getting married in October at Whiskey Row, in Prescott AZ. We are having an open bar. My parents and I are splitting the liquor cost. My dilemma is not having enough. My dad mentioned last...