Discussions by Aftan

FH and I don't want seating charts or table assignments. However, I don't want a bunch of people trying to get to the buffet at one time OR taking too long at the buffet trying to decide between what...

Has anyone used the Dr. Scholls high heels insoles? Or have recommendations?

Our officiant is the wife of FH's BM. I know for a fact that she will not take money as a gift, doesn't collect anything, and I'm not sure she's a wine drinker. I'm not big on giving gift cards. Any...

I am looking for a pair of wedge sandals (flip flop style, maybe?) that are about 3 1/2 inches tall. I had no need to hem my dress with my current pair of shoes but, in the event that my shoes start...

We sent out our invites over a week ago and we have only received 2 RSVP's back. Should I be worried???

I have quickly become addicted to these forums. I have been on or near them all day long!!! Anyone else?

Since I'm in nursing school and wedding is already a big expense we have decided to wait and have "late" honeymoon after I get out of school and start working. Is anyone else putting off their...

I just finished writing my vows. I am just wondering if this is becoming the norm vs. saying traditional vows.

Are you supposed to send out invites to the people that are invited to the rehearsal dinner? I always assumed that as long as it was only people that were going to be in the wedding that were going to...

When are you supposed to do the first dance, father/daughter dance, etc? I figured those would be after eating. Am I wrong?

I'm DIY centerpieces for our rehearsal dinner. Where is a good place to get Calla Lilies?

I am back and forth on whether to let FH see me before ceremony in all the "finery". There are definite pros and cons for both. What do you all think? Note: we will see each other prior because I have...

First fitting in a week and a half and I have no idea how I want my bustle to look!!! Ideas appreciated!!!

FH is very opinionated about music and I am too. It took us SIX hours to nail down the 4 songs that we are using for the ceremony!!! I can't imagine how long it would take us to pick out specific...

I have always thought that when you go to a bridal shower that the guests usually bought gifts (if they brought one) off of the registry. I was recently told that the bridal shower is for guests to...

My FI and I bought seal and sends because 1) they were "designed/decorated" exactly like we had envisioned for our invites and 2) they were the bet fit for our budget. On the plus side, we won't have...