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Whitby Castle

Up to 250 guests
Ceremony/Reception
Outdoor/Indoor
Event Planner
Wen
Urjita
Fuad
Janice
Jordyn

Recommended by 96% of couples

What is the story behind Whitby Castle?

Whitby Castle at Rye Golf Club is a classic wedding venue in Rye, New York, built in 1852 and modeled after the historic Whitby Abbey ruins in England. Set on 126 acres overlooking the Long Island Sound and Milton Harbor, this Westchester County castle pairs gothic and renaissance architecture with a bright, contemporary interior, making it a top choice for couples searching for a classic castle wedding venue with modern indoor reception space.

Outdoors, exchange vows beneath an archway on manicured lawns framed by the golf course and harbor views, then move guests to the patio for cocktail hour before an indoor reception. Inside, a grand ballroom accommodates up to 250 guests for a glamorous wedding reception, while two private reception rooms offer a more intimate setting for smaller celebrations. Chandeliers, soaring windows, and waterfront views give every space a refined, romantic backdrop without feeling dated, appealing to couples who want a timeless, storybook wedding with clean, contemporary polish.

An 11-time Knot Best of Weddings winner, Whitby Castle is managed by Lessing's Hospitality Group and has hosted weddings ranging from grand 250-guest celebrations to intimate gatherings of 125. Couples describe the experience as feeling like royalty for a day, with a dedicated wedding team handling every detail from planning through execution.

Ready to plan your fairy-tale day? Reach out to our team today to check available dates and start planning your wedding at Whitby Castle.

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Experience

  • 174 years in business

  • We speak English

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What does a real wedding at Whitby Castle look like?

Daniel & Emily's wedding
Daniel & Emily
110 photos
Dave & Lara's wedding
Dave & Lara
87 photos
Dana & David's wedding
Dana & David
19 photos
Maricalla & Terry's wedding
Maricalla & Terry
12 photos
Jackie & Danny's wedding
Jackie & Danny
67 photos
Melanie & Sal's wedding
Melanie & Sal
27 photos
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What are Whitby Castle's site fees and venue policies?

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

No

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during peak season?

$2,000

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during off-peak season?

$2,000

Which of the following are included in the cost of wedding catering?

Cake Cutting
Dessert
Server(s)
Wedding Cake

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

Bartender(s)
Champagne Toast
House Liquor
House Wine
Open Bar

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

1

Describe your venue:

Banquet Hall
Historic Building
Mansion

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception

What event services do you offer?

Event Planner
Event Rentals

What event items are available?

Chairs

What food and beverage items are available?

Barware
China
Flatware
Glassware
Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Valet
Wheelchair Access

What months are included in your peak season?

May
June
July
August
September
October

What months are included in your off-peak season?

January
February
March
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Whitby Castle is a stunning, romantic wedding venue with elegant spaces and a seamless bridal suite. Reviewers praised the highly professional, attentive, and accommodating staff who handled planning, last‑minute changes, and day‑of logistics flawlessly. The food received rave reviews and guests loved the overall experience.

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Whitby Castle is a stunning, romantic wedding venue with elegant spaces and a seamless bridal suite. Reviewers praised the highly professional, attentive, and accommodating staff who handled planning, last‑minute changes, and day‑of logistics flawlessly. The food received rave reviews and guests loved the overall experience.

Weddingwire
4.8/5 155 reviews
Google
4.7/5 380 reviews
Wen
Wen Sent on 04/22/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Must book if you want a fairytale ending

My husband and I toured a few venues, but it was end-game the moment we drove up to Whitby Castle. As soon as we opened their grand front doors for the first time, we were greeted with genuineness and warmth of the Whitby family. We knew we found a home with them for our wedding.

Some key players who ensured our wedding was a fairytale:

Niki is the catering sales rep, who we communicated with throughout the process and up until our wedding. We loved how responsive she was and always so kind (even if it was just through email). She answered all of our questions promptly and was never pushy.

Ralph is the operations manager who we worked with a few weeks before our wedding. He is detailed and efficient- logistically, he made sure the timeline and ceremony details were perfect.

On the actual day of our wedding, Gabriel was our Maitre’D and Roxy was my bridal attendant. They were both simply godsend. Gabriel has a calm and natural demeanor; and Roxy is a bada** woman (I mean it in a good way)- when they saw how one of my vendors was making me incredibly anxious and flustered with their blatant unprofessionalism, they would step in and provide (and act on) reassurance that we didn’t have to do anything that I didn’t want to do. They consistently made sure to check in and made sure we were okay. I don’t know what I would have done with Gabriel and Roxy.

And finally, the entire staff. My guests still share with me how kind the staff was throughout the wedding and how they were treated like family. Also, the FOOD! My guests consistently raved how the food was just incredible and far exceeded any expectations.

Thank you, Whitby team, for making our wedding magical!
Urjita
Urjita Sent on 07/14/2026
5 out of 5 rating

We lucked out- even with a heat wave!

We had our South Asian wedding at Whitby Castle on July 4.

From the beginning, Niki made us feel welcome and confident in our decision. She was responsive, understanding, and flexible throughout the booking process that we truly appreciated. We originally chose Whitby Castle because having an outdoor ceremony on the grounds was part of our dream.

As we got closer to the wedding, Ralph became our main point of contact and he was our Maitre'D. He was incredibly communicative, practical, and reassuring. He helped us work through the last-minute changes and was always focused on finding a solution.

Unfortunately, due to an intense heatwave, we made the difficult decision to move the ceremony indoors at the last minute. I was nervous that the indoor ceremony would not have the same feeling, but the space felt elegant, intimate, and beautiful, and our photographs still captured everything we loved.
There were naturally a few hiccups throughout the day as well, but the venue including Ralph and Rosa (bridal attendant) remained accommodating and worked well with every one of our vendors to keep things moving.

They took care of us that day in moments where no one else was paying attention, and we are eternally thankful to them for that. Whitby Castle is a stunning venue, but also one with a team that genuinely tries to support its couples.

We are very grateful to Niki, Ralph, Rosa, and the entire Whitby Castle team for helping bring our wedding together.
Fuad
Fuad Sent on 05/12/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Better than I could have hoped for!

We had a dream wedding at Whitby Castle, and it truly exceeded every expectation. From the very first planning meeting with Niki, to the final dance, - every detail was executed with elegance and care.

Our Maitre d’, Ralph, was simply outstanding. He went above and beyond, treating our wedding as if it were his own. His responsiveness throughout the planning process and his calm, attentive presence on the day itself made all the difference. He anticipated our needs before we even voiced them and ensured everything ran seamlessly.

The food was delicious, and the flow between the ceremony and reception spaces felt natural and beautifully orchestrated. The entire team was incredibly accommodating—happily allowing us early access to set up personal touches and handling every request with a smile.

Both Ralph and Niki are true gems and made our experience unforgettable.

If you’re looking for a stunning, well-run wedding venue with a team that genuinely cares, I cannot recommend Whitby Castle highly enough. It was the perfect setting for the most important day of our lives.
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Amanda Sent on 01/04/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Highly Recommend - Beautiful Venue, Great Staff!

Whitby Castle was a fantastic wedding reception venue!

From the very first time we connected with Niki after visiting Whitby Castle she was incredibly helpful. Throughout the entire planning process, her responsiveness, guidance, and support made everything feel seamless.

Ralph, and the amazing team had flawless execution on the day itself. From the moment we arrived on property, we felt completely taken care of. Every detail was handled exactly as we had envisioned, and the venue looked stunning.

Our guests have not stopped raving about the breathtaking setting and the incredible food. We are so grateful to Niki, Ralph and the entire Whitby staff for helping create memories we will cherish forever! Highly recommend Whitby Castle!
Janice
Janice Sent on 12/20/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Absolutely Perfect Day!

We had a great experience hosting our wedding at Whitby Castle. From the initial planning stages to the day itself, everything was handled with a high level of professionalism.

Booking was straightforward and easy thanks to Ralph and Niki. On the day of the wedding, Roxy and Rosa kept everything moving exactly on schedule. Their coordination ensured that we didn't have to worry about the timeline, and the entire event ran smoothly from start to finish.

The food was a major highlight. The chef did an excellent job, and the quality was consistent across every course. He personally talked to each of our guests as well. Our guests were genuinely impressed—we’re still getting compliments about the meal months later, which speaks for itself.

We chose to use their vendor package and were very happy with that decision. It significantly simplified the planning process, and the results were exactly what we had hoped for.

Overall, Whitby Castle delivered a fantastic day. It’s a beautiful spot, but the service and the kitchen are what really set it apart. Highly recommended.
Jordyn
Jordyn Sent on 11/21/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect wedding venue

Whitby Castle was the most beautiful and thoughtful wedding venue from coordinators, servers, etc. The Maitre d, Ralph, was so impressive, thorough and wonderful to work with. We received such positive feedback about the food, stations and the flow of the ceremony to reception. Every detail was executed beautifully.. I can’t thank the team of Whitby enough especially Ralph who went above and beyond to make our day special. I highly recommend couples to get married here!
Cat
Cat Sent on 11/10/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Great Venue, wedding planning made easy!

I cannot say enough amazing things about Whitby Castle! From start to finish, the entire team was absolutely incredible. They were so accommodating, organized, and made the entire process feel effortless — they truly have this down to a science.

Every single detail was handled with care and precision. The staff was attentive, professional, and genuinely kind, making sure everything ran smoothly so we could just enjoy the day. I never once felt stressed — they made my life so easy!

The venue itself was stunning, the food was outstanding, and the service was flawless. Every guest raved about how beautiful everything was and how seamless the day felt.

If you’re looking for a venue that goes above and beyond in every way, this is it. I wish I could relive the day all over again — it was absolute perfection thanks to this incredible team!
S
Stacie Sent on 10/15/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing venue and amazing staff

Not only does Whitby Castle have the most beautiful ballroom, but the staff is amazing. Communication was on point from the beginning. Niki was so responsive and helpful throughout the whole process. When it came to wedding day logistics, Ralph was amazingggg. He was so responsive and on the day of the wedding, he (and staff) took care of EVERYTHING. The best staff!!! Would 100% recommend this venue!
R
Rose Sent on 10/06/2025
5 out of 5 rating

My Daughter’s Wedding

The Whitby Castle did a fantastic job. They made my daughter’s day stress free and seamless. They responded to every request and question we asked of them and gave a day to remember. The food and service were beyond all our expectations.
Carolyn
Carolyn Sent on 10/03/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect Day

Ralph: I wanted to extend Carolyn and my thanks to you and your staff for a wonderful wedding on Sunday for Jackie and Philip. We are Philip’s parents and cannot say enough about how great you and your staff were on Sunday. Your excellent work helped make it a very special evening. Great venue, great food, great service and a whole lot of fun!
Keep up the good work and maybe we will see you again at another Whitby Castle event!
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What awards has Whitby Castle won?

155
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2026 Winner
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The Whitby Castle is a beautiful location for a wedding. As a photographer, I find many lovely backdrops for stunning photographs of the bride and groom, bridal party and family shots.

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We're honored to have worked successfully over the years with Lessings Hospitality at Whitby Castle, and we recommend you contact them for your event.

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gorgeous, recently redone...just lovely

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Whitby Castle frequently asked questions

Whitby Castle includes the following items and services in its wedding catering costs:
  • Cake Cutting
  • Dessert
  • Server(s)
  • Wedding Cake
The bar service starting price at Whitby Castle includes:
  • Bartender(s)
  • Champagne Toast
  • House Liquor
  • House Wine
  • Open Bar
The space offered by Whitby Castle for wedding events is known for:
  • Banquet Hall
  • Historic Building
  • Mansion
Whitby Castle offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
Whitby Castle offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
Whitby Castle offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Event Planner
  • Event Rentals
Whitby Castle offers the following furniture and decor items for weddings:
  • Chairs
Whitby Castle is recommended by 96% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.8 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 4.9 in average response time, 4.8 in quality of service, 4.8 in flexibility, 4.8 in professionalism and 4.8 in value.
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