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Whitby Castle is a luxurious wedding venue located in Westchester County in Rye, New York. Situated on a serene golf course, this impressive castle features a striking resemblance to the original Whitby Abbey in England. This Lessing’s Hospitality Group venue sits on 126 acres and offers both indoor and outdoor settings for your ceremony and reception. Whitby Castle prides itself on its perfectly manicured lawns, breathtaking views of the Long Island Sound, and elegant event rooms.

Facilities and Capacity

Couples can accommodate up to 250 guests at this mansion-style wedding venue. Initially built in 1852, this breathtaking castle will transport couples and their guests back in time with its eye-catching decors and design. It boasts striking architectural elements and even possesses some of the original stones from its ancestor Whitby Abbey. Soon-to-be newlyweds can exchange vows beneath a simple arch in front of the castle before sipping on cocktails on the outdoor patio where gorgeous views of Milton Harbor are visible. Moving inside the castle, newlyweds can enter the grandiose ballroom for their wedding reception. The space features both traditional and contemporary decoration, adding a timeless chic ambience to the space. For more intimate gatherings, Whitby Castle can host couples in one of their other private reception rooms.

Services Offered

The professional and friendly staff at Whitby Castle will strive to ensure you and your loved ones are treated like royalty. An in-house event coordinator is by your side throughout the planning process, working tirelessly to take care of every detail. The on-site restaurant offers delicious catering packages for weddings and special occasions, along with comprehensive bar services. Tables, Chiavari chairs, dance floors, linens, flatware, and glassware are all included in the main package. Additionally, the venue can provide couples with a detailed list of vendor recommendations for photography, florals, and entertainment. Valet parking and wedding cakes are also managed by the company.

Cuisine

Couples can customize their wedding menus to suit their individual tastes and budgets. Every menu is tailored to your exact specifications, with options available for cocktail hour appetizers, a Champagne reception, and seated reception dinner. The kitchen can arrange and design exotic fruit displays, buffets with cheese and fresh vegetables, butler-passed hors d'oeuvres, and entree stations. Sample entrees include free-range chicken breast with honey-balsamic glaze, miso-glazed mahi-mahi, New York strip steaks, and Syrah-braised short ribs.

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FAQ

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

No

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during peak season?

$2,000

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during off-peak season?

$2,000

Which of the following are included in the cost of wedding catering?

Cake Cutting
Dessert
Server(s)
Wedding Cake

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

Bartender(s)
Champagne Toast
House Liquor
House Wine
Open Bar

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

1

Describe your venue:

Banquet Hall
Historic Building
Mansion

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception

What event services do you offer?

Event Planner
Event Rentals

What event items are available?

Chairs

What food and beverage items are available?

Barware
China
Flatware
Glassware
Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Valet
Wheelchair Access

What months are included in your peak season?

May
June
July
August
September
October

What months are included in your off-peak season?

January
February
March

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Reviews of Whitby Castle

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Whitby Castle is highly praised for its exceptional service, stunning setting, and delicious food by multiple reviewers. Niki, Ralph, and the entire staff are commended for their professionalism, warmth, and attention to detail throughout the planning process and on the wedding day. Guests rave about the seamless execution, beautiful decorations, and the picturesque venue. The helpfulness of the staff, simplified planning process, vendor package options, and overall magical experience make Whitby Castle a highly recommended wedding venue.

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Whitby Castle is highly praised for its exceptional service, stunning setting, and delicious food by multiple reviewers. Niki, Ralph, and the entire staff are commended for their professionalism, warmth, and attention to detail throughout the planning process and on the wedding day. Guests rave about the seamless execution, beautiful decorations, and the picturesque venue. The helpfulness of the staff, simplified planning process, vendor package options, and overall magical experience make Whitby Castle a highly recommended wedding venue.

Weddingwire
4.8/5 153 reviews
Google
4.7/5 366 reviews
Wen
Wen Sent on 04/22/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Must book if you want a fairytale ending

My husband and I toured a few venues, but it was end-game the moment we drove up to Whitby Castle. As soon as we opened their grand front doors for the first time, we were greeted with genuineness and warmth of the Whitby family. We knew we found a home with them for our wedding.

Some key players who ensured our wedding was a fairytale:

Niki is the catering sales rep, who we communicated with throughout the process and up until our wedding. We loved how responsive she was and always so kind (even if it was just through email). She answered all of our questions promptly and was never pushy.

Ralph is the operations manager who we worked with a few weeks before our wedding. He is detailed and efficient- logistically, he made sure the timeline and ceremony details were perfect.

On the actual day of our wedding, Gabriel was our Maitre’D and Roxy was my bridal attendant. They were both simply godsend. Gabriel has a calm and natural demeanor; and Roxy is a bada** woman (I mean it in a good way)- when they saw how one of my vendors was making me incredibly anxious and flustered with their blatant unprofessionalism, they would step in and provide (and act on) reassurance that we didn’t have to do anything that I didn’t want to do. They consistently made sure to check in and made sure we were okay. I don’t know what I would have done with Gabriel and Roxy.

And finally, the entire staff. My guests still share with me how kind the staff was throughout the wedding and how they were treated like family. Also, the FOOD! My guests consistently raved how the food was just incredible and far exceeded any expectations.

Thank you, Whitby team, for making our wedding magical!
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Amanda Sent on 01/04/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Highly Recommend - Beautiful Venue, Great Staff!

Whitby Castle was a fantastic wedding reception venue!

From the very first time we connected with Niki after visiting Whitby Castle she was incredibly helpful. Throughout the entire planning process, her responsiveness, guidance, and support made everything feel seamless.

Ralph, and the amazing team had flawless execution on the day itself. From the moment we arrived on property, we felt completely taken care of. Every detail was handled exactly as we had envisioned, and the venue looked stunning.

Our guests have not stopped raving about the breathtaking setting and the incredible food. We are so grateful to Niki, Ralph and the entire Whitby staff for helping create memories we will cherish forever! Highly recommend Whitby Castle!
Janice
Janice Sent on 12/20/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Absolutely Perfect Day!

We had a great experience hosting our wedding at Whitby Castle. From the initial planning stages to the day itself, everything was handled with a high level of professionalism.

Booking was straightforward and easy thanks to Ralph and Niki. On the day of the wedding, Roxy and Rosa kept everything moving exactly on schedule. Their coordination ensured that we didn't have to worry about the timeline, and the entire event ran smoothly from start to finish.

The food was a major highlight. The chef did an excellent job, and the quality was consistent across every course. He personally talked to each of our guests as well. Our guests were genuinely impressed—we’re still getting compliments about the meal months later, which speaks for itself.

We chose to use their vendor package and were very happy with that decision. It significantly simplified the planning process, and the results were exactly what we had hoped for.

Overall, Whitby Castle delivered a fantastic day. It’s a beautiful spot, but the service and the kitchen are what really set it apart. Highly recommended.
Jordyn
Jordyn Sent on 11/21/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect wedding venue

Whitby Castle was the most beautiful and thoughtful wedding venue from coordinators, servers, etc. The Maitre d, Ralph, was so impressive, thorough and wonderful to work with. We received such positive feedback about the food, stations and the flow of the ceremony to reception. Every detail was executed beautifully.. I can’t thank the team of Whitby enough especially Ralph who went above and beyond to make our day special. I highly recommend couples to get married here!
Cat
Cat Sent on 11/10/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Great Venue, wedding planning made easy!

I cannot say enough amazing things about Whitby Castle! From start to finish, the entire team was absolutely incredible. They were so accommodating, organized, and made the entire process feel effortless — they truly have this down to a science.

Every single detail was handled with care and precision. The staff was attentive, professional, and genuinely kind, making sure everything ran smoothly so we could just enjoy the day. I never once felt stressed — they made my life so easy!

The venue itself was stunning, the food was outstanding, and the service was flawless. Every guest raved about how beautiful everything was and how seamless the day felt.

If you’re looking for a venue that goes above and beyond in every way, this is it. I wish I could relive the day all over again — it was absolute perfection thanks to this incredible team!
S
Stacie Sent on 10/15/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing venue and amazing staff

Not only does Whitby Castle have the most beautiful ballroom, but the staff is amazing. Communication was on point from the beginning. Niki was so responsive and helpful throughout the whole process. When it came to wedding day logistics, Ralph was amazingggg. He was so responsive and on the day of the wedding, he (and staff) took care of EVERYTHING. The best staff!!! Would 100% recommend this venue!
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Rose Sent on 10/06/2025
5 out of 5 rating

My Daughter’s Wedding

The Whitby Castle did a fantastic job. They made my daughter’s day stress free and seamless. They responded to every request and question we asked of them and gave a day to remember. The food and service were beyond all our expectations.
Carolyn
Carolyn Sent on 10/03/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect Day

Ralph: I wanted to extend Carolyn and my thanks to you and your staff for a wonderful wedding on Sunday for Jackie and Philip. We are Philip’s parents and cannot say enough about how great you and your staff were on Sunday. Your excellent work helped make it a very special evening. Great venue, great food, great service and a whole lot of fun!
Keep up the good work and maybe we will see you again at another Whitby Castle event!
K
Kristin Sent on 09/23/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Our wedding was fantastic!

We had an amazing evening it was better than we imagined and that’s largely because of Ralph and the Whitby team, especially Niki and Rosa.

Literally, everything was perfect!

Everyone raved about the food, the cake was gorgeous the venue was beautiful!

We couldn’t imagine our wedding anywhere else.
D
Deysi Sent on 09/09/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Sweet Sixteen. On August 28 we had my daughter sweet sixteen party and I can’t thank you enough for the amazing job you guys did. We were so happy with everything, the food was amazing my family and friends are still talking about the beautiful place and the delicious food. I would like to thank everyone but specially to Maitre D’ Mr. Gabriel and his staff for the remarkable work they did. They were kind and helpful. Also I would like to thank the owner of the Whitby Castle for letting my photographer use his car to take pictures of my daughter on his car. Big thank you

They were very reasonable with their prices and they were very accommodating.
Thank you very much. I will recommend this place to family and friends. 10/10
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Date: From 02/22/2026 to 02/22/2026 Schedule 03:00 PM - 05:00 PM
Location: 330 Boston Post Road, Rye, NY

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Whitby Castle frequently asked questions

Whitby Castle includes the following items and services in its wedding catering costs:
  • Cake Cutting
  • Dessert
  • Server(s)
  • Wedding Cake
The bar service starting price at Whitby Castle includes:
  • Bartender(s)
  • Champagne Toast
  • House Liquor
  • House Wine
  • Open Bar
The space offered by Whitby Castle for wedding events is known for:
  • Banquet Hall
  • Historic Building
  • Mansion
Whitby Castle offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
Whitby Castle offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
Whitby Castle offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Event Planner
  • Event Rentals
Whitby Castle offers the following furniture and decor items for weddings:
  • Chairs
Whitby Castle is recommended by 96% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.8 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 4.9 in average response time, 4.8 in quality of service, 4.8 in flexibility, 4.8 in professionalism and 4.8 in value.
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