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To Have & To Hold Wedding Planning is a contemporary, full-service wedding planning service, bringing more than a decade of wedding deisgn, planning expertise and creative passion to couples seeking a stylish, signature event, serving all of Northern California!

This talented and dedicated team has the experience, composure, and creativity to ensure that your wedding day is more beautiful than you could have ever imagined.

Judi is the Owner and Lead Planner of To Have & To Hold, and knows from experience that hiring a skilled, professional wedding planner can mean the difference between your wedding day exceeding all of your dreams, or wishing that certain details had turned out differently.

With an endless passion for her work, Judi is completely dedicated to her clients during the entire wedding planning process. Whether you envision a romantic and intimate ceremony or a lavish, contemporary celebration, our team listens to your every need, offers practical and meaningful feedback, and will eliminate the stress by working tirelessly to design and deliver the wedding of your dreams. From the first day to the last, we communicate closely with your preferred vendors to ensure everyone is on task, everything is on time and every moment of the event unfolds beautifully.

We understand that sticking to your ideal wedding budget can be challenging. It's okay, we're here for you! If needed, we are skilled at creating customized wedding budgets and can help you stay on track during the wedding planning process.

To Have & To Hold Wedding Planning offers a FREE one-hour consultation, signature "Day-Of" Coordination packages, and a premier "All Inclusive" planning package. Packages can be customized, aligning your specific planning needs with your financial comfort zone!

We look forward to being a part of making your wedding day everything you've dreamed of...and more!

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Frequently asked questions

What is the starting price for day-of wedding coordination?

$2,099

What is the starting price for partial wedding planning?

$2,099

What is the starting price for full wedding planning?

$3,599

Do you offer an hourly rate?

Yes

What is the hourly rate?

$65

What wedding events do you provide services for?

Ceremony
Reception
Rehearsal Dinner

What wedding planning services do you offer?

Day-of Coordination
Full Planning
Partial Planning

What weddings do you have experience planning?

Civil
Cultural
Destination
Elopement
Eco-Friendly
Non-Religious
Religious

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Reviewers rave about To Have & To Hold Wedding Planning, praising the planner and partner for exceptional organization, attention to detail, and calming guidance through monthly check‑ins. They managed setup, vendors, and timelines flawlessly, reducing stress and saving money. Highly recommended for day-of coordination.

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Reviewers rave about To Have & To Hold Wedding Planning, praising the planner and partner for exceptional organization, attention to detail, and calming guidance through monthly check‑ins. They managed setup, vendors, and timelines flawlessly, reducing stress and saving money. Highly recommended for day-of coordination.

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Lily Sent on 09/24/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Do yourself a favor and hire this duo!!!!!

Judi and her husband at to have and to hold are literally the best. Great communication, friendly, and extremely helpful! She took every idea I had and ran with it while providing helpful feedback. I would recommend them time and time again! My wedding would not have been the same with our them. Do yourself a favor and get ahold of Judi at to have and to hold wedding planning!!! I left my wedding feeling like I had had the best day of my life and like I had made new friends along the way
Chanelle
Chanelle Sent on 11/05/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing Wedding Planning Services!!!

🌟 🌟 10 Stars across the board for Judi and To Have & To Hold Wedding Planning! 🌟 🌟 🌟

Our wedding took place at Orchard Creek Lodge on August 16, 2025. It was absolutely perfect and we owe so much of that to Judi and the incredible team at To Have and To Hold Wedding Planning. From the very beginning, Judi was a dream to work with. She was endlessly patient, incredibly sweet, and always made us feel like our vision truly mattered.

Throughout the entire planning process, Judi guided us with such grace and calm, even when we were overwhelmed with decisions. Her eye for detail is unmatched, every flower, every table setting, and every timeline detail was flawless. She anticipated things we never would have thought of and made sure the day ran seamlessly from start to finish.
One of the highlights of our planning journey was our monthly check-in calls with Judi. My husband and I genuinely looked forward to them every time! She made each meeting fun, organized, and reassuring turning what could have been a stressful process into something we actually enjoyed.

What stood out most was how genuinely caring and kind Judi was. She went above and beyond to make sure we were comfortable, happy, and stress-free. We truly felt supported every step of the way, and it’s clear that she pours her heart into what she does.

Our wedding day was everything we dreamed of and more, and we couldn’t have done it without her. Judi will always hold a special place in our hearts. she is the wedding planner every bride and groom deserves!

Thank you, Judi, for making our special day unforgettable!

The Fergusons!
Kathryn
Kathryn Sent on 02/24/2025
5 out of 5 rating

We couldn't have done it without Judy!

Judy was absolutely amazing. The monthly phone call check-ins leading up to the wedding were very helpful to keep us on tract. She did a great job organizing our dress rehearsal. Judy and her husband helped us set up the day of and took a lot of initiative. She really did an amazing job keeping us organized and on tract with her expertise and was a pleasure to work with. Judy really cared about making our wedding day as special as could be and is very passionate about her work. Would highly recommend!
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Mercedes Sent on 11/09/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Couldn't have been better

I partnered with judi about 10 months before the wedding day. She was great to work with through the entire process. We did monthly calls and she helped keep me on track and offered guidance through all my planning. When the time came she stepped in right away and I didn't have to worry much about vendors and worrying about talking to them about arrivals times etc. It let me focus on enjoying the last few weeks of our engagement. Her husband and her were great to work with through the entire wedding. I highly recommend Judi and anyone debating on getting a day of coordinator....trust me, it's worth every penny.
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Tanner Sent on 10/23/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect Wedding Power Couple

Judi and Sean from To Have and To Hold are an absolute power couple of wedding planning and executing.

We hired Judi primarily for day of event set up and organizing nearly 7 months before the event. Every month we had about an hour long phone call going over any updates and next steps.

She's incredibly flexible, has a wide array of materials, and with the help of her husband in the day of, set up was done well before hand and everything was absolutely perfect.

I hear most couples have 1 or 2 things that they wish had been done different or were less than perfect, but with these two, you can kiss any worry of that goodbye. The ceremony was perfect, the decorations were gorgeous, and we stayed almost exactly at our budget.
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Patricia Sent on 08/04/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Absolutely amazing!

I met Judi Tener in 2022. She hired me to provide, set-up & remove her wedding reception place-settings. During the past two years I've discovered many things about Judi, and her team. Professionally: she has years of successful wedding design experience & is a thoughtful communicator who thrives on listening to her clients, so she can create and deliver the wedding they truly captures who they are as a couple. She shares her expertise and industry information openly, and places her client's needs and desires first! Judi is ALWAYS on time & more than 100% committed to the task at hand. Regarding her character: she LOVES people, LOVES her work, and SERVING her clients. Judi has impeccable integrity and is generous with her knowledge, time, support, energy & encouragement. I have observed and worked with a variety of wedding planners over the last 8 years. The position requires listening, personal involvement, empathy, and compassion. Judi embodies all of those needed qualities. I'm so glad I get to work with her and her amazing team!
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Jenny Sent on 07/04/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Judi will help you have your dream wedding!

Judi (To Have & To Hold Wedding Planning) did a fantastic job planning, organizing, and executing our wedding reception. Her professionalism, patience, and hard work since our first meeting made the entire process and the event even better! Judi ensured everything ran smoothly. We felt like we were in the best hands. We are so grateful that we got to work with her. We could not recommend her more for wedding planning! She is truly amazing! :)
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Megan Sent on 06/17/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Hire judi right now

Judi went above and beyond to make me and my now husband feel so supported through the whole wedding planning process. Every phone chat with her made us feel so much more at ease and excited about our big day. We were two educators totally in over our heads with all of this and Judi walked us through every step of the way. Do not hesitate to hire her, seriously. THANK YOU JUDI!!!!!
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Micah Sent on 06/10/2024
5 out of 5 rating

The best wedding planner ever

Judi literally SAVED our wedding many times over!she is professional, knowledgeable and just a pleasure to be around! Not only did she execute our dream to perfection but she gave key insights and advice in moments when we were lost that not only saved us money but kept us stress free. She also did a great job mediating in times where parents wanted to go a different direction than the bride etc .
Hiring Judi will be the BEST decision you make for your wedding! Her enthusiasm and genuine love for weddings sets her apart and her knowledge is unmatched.

I’ve never been happier to have someone on my side! Thank you AGAIN judi for all you did to make our day perfect!
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Allison Sent on 04/05/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Judi is amazing!

Your search for a wedding planner just ended! Judi was amazing and so phenomenal with her communication. As a new bride she was there for me every step of the way. She helped me think of things I didn't consider and our whole family loves her. She feels like family and we are really grateful. There was zero stress working with Judi and that is exactly what we could have hoped for. Our wedding day was seemless and everything went so smoothly. Thank you Judi and Sean, everything was perfect!
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