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John and Pam Kavanagh
John and Pam Kavanagh
Owners

Veteran-owned, Woman-owned

2 years in business

We speak English

Just me

Located in Barco, North Carolina, The Palmer Inn Estate is a historic wedding venue dating back to 1850. Nestled along the Coinjock Bay, this stunning property offers a breathtaking backdrop for bespoke weddings, complete with enchanting views. Just a half hour from the Outer Banks and the eastern Virginia line, The Palmer Inn Estate is easily accessible yet feels like a secluded retreat—perfect for celebrating with those who matter most.

Facilities and Capacity

The Palmer Inn Estate now features outdoor spaces designed to elevate your wedding experience:

  • The Garden Ceremony Space, a beautifully landscaped setting surrounded by lush blooms and trees, ideal for romantic “I do” moments.
  • The Bay View Wedding Pavilion, an open-air, covered reception space with views of Coinjock Bay—perfect for dining, dancing, and celebrating under the coastal sky.
  • Bridal & Honeymoon suite, offering a serene space to get ready, relax, and retreat after the celebration.

The estate also offers two luxurious accommodations: an impressive main house with six bedrooms, 6 bedrooms and 4 1/2 bathrooms. The guest house had two bedrooms, two bathrooms and salon style chairs and mirrors. The perfect "getting ready" space. Set on over eight picturesque acres, the venue comfortably hosts up to 150 guests and features expansive porches, modern amenities, and charming Southern elegance throughout.

Services Offered

At The Palmer Inn Estate, the team is committed to making your wedding day or weekend seamless and unforgettable. Wedding packages include multiple ceremony and reception locations, exclusive use of the property, and options for on-site rehearsal dinners and post-wedding brunches.

Contact The Palmer Inn Estate today to schedule a tour and begin planning your dream coastal wedding.

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FAQ

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during peak season?

$3,000

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during off-peak season?

$3,000

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during peak season?

$3,000

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during off-peak season?

$3,000

Which of the following are included in starting site fee?

Bridal Suite
Parking

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

4

Describe your venue:

Garden
Historic Building
Mansion
Waterfront

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Covered Outdoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party
Elopements
Rehearsal Dinner

What event services do you offer?

Accommodations
Event Rentals
Get Ready Rooms
Outside Vendors
Pet Friendly
Wifi

What transportation and access is available?

Parking

What months are included in your peak season?

April
May
June
July
August
September
October
November

What months are included in your off-peak season?

January
February
March
December

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Reviews of The Palmer Inn Estate

Dorota
Dorota Sent on 07/29/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful Venue!

I had the pleasure to capture a wedding at The Palmer Inn Estate. Pam was incredibly nice and helpful! She made sure that every part of the property is ready for the wedding day. The guest house is a perfect space for bride to get ready away from the groom. The reception space was set in front of the main house between trees - it looked very elegant and charming! Lots of space for larger groups as well. It was such a fun wedding! I hope to be back there soon!
Brook
Brook Sent on 07/17/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Small Vow Renewal - Intimate

This venue was exactly what we were looking for. Beautiful views, lots of entertaining space, room for our closest friends and family and a gorgeous backdrop for our photos. The management was helpful and offered up amazing suggestions for food, photos and decor. We loved the interior of both homes but the main house was stunning enough to have photos taken inside too! We were pleasantly surprised by the clear views of the sound and the sweeping farm land! We only had our closest friends and family but I could see how this home could accommodate larger groups. We are planning a trip in the fall for a long weekend (Airbnb) because we enjoyed our time there so much.
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John and Pam Kavanagh
John and Pam Kavanagh
Owners

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The Palmer Inn Estate frequently asked questions

The Palmer Inn Estate includes the following items and services for wedding events in its starting site fee:
  • Bridal Suite
  • Parking
The space offered by The Palmer Inn Estate for wedding events is known for:
  • Garden
  • Historic Building
  • Mansion
  • Waterfront
The Palmer Inn Estate offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Covered Outdoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
The Palmer Inn Estate offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
  • Bridal Shower
  • Engagement Party
  • Elopements
  • Rehearsal Dinner
The Palmer Inn Estate offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Accommodations
  • Event Rentals
  • Get Ready Rooms
  • Outside Vendors
  • Pet Friendly
  • Wifi
The Palmer Inn Estate is recommended by 100% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 5.0, with the same score awarded for quality of service, flexibility, value, professionalism and average response time.
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