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Xenia Catering at The Abbie Holmes Estate is Cape May County's premiere wedding and special event venue. Personalized event planning and impeccable service make any event with Xenia Catering a truly memorable occasion.

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Banquet Hall
Historic Building

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Covered Outdoor
Uncovered Outdoor

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What event services do you offer?

Event Planner
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Reviews of The Abbie Holmes Estate

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4.9 out of 5 rating
4.9 out of 5 rating
24 Reviews
98% recommend it
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Caitlin E. Sent on 05/31/2022
5 out of 5 rating

A magical dream come true

Abbie Holmes is a well oiled dream machine- from the genuine staff members to the flow of the planning process and wedding day- it’s perfection and stress free ! We fell in love with Abbie Holmes from being guests at a wedding there years ago… so we knew right away where we wanted to look first. It has such a home sweet home feeling all the while being so unique and mystical in its own ways. You have so many options and opportunities within this venue - and the ceremony area is just lovely! Our guests loved how you weren’t forced to stay inside and dance during the reception like most weddings- we had “mini excursions” all around the property so guests could adventure out and explore if the dance floor wasn’t their thing. From a bourbon tasting area , to our outdoor photobooth , to the property and porch - our guests felt like they were truly at a grand party and not just a reception hall. Dena and Lily went above and beyond for us and were so helpful. You won’t have to lift a finger on your day- it’s all sorted out and ready for you. I would give them a million stars if I could ! We’re so happy we got married here and can’t wait to return in the future- it’s near and dear to us.
Emily K. Sent on 07/23/2022
5 out of 5 rating

The best of the best

Wow- there are not enough words that could ever capture how truly wonderful our experience was with Dena, Lily, and all the Abbie Holmes staff. From all the consultation meetings leading up to our wedding, the tastings, and the coordination between vendors, they really made our dream come true. The food was incredible, the decor was top-notch, and the vibe and atmosphere were exactly what my husband and I were looking for to start the first day of the rest of our lives together. After having my wedding there, I literally wanted to change careers and work for Abbie Holmes, that's how amazing they were. Cannot recommend them enough.
Marissa A. Sent on 05/24/2021
5 out of 5 rating

The Abbie Holmes Estate

I truly cannot say enough amazing things about Dena and The Abbie Holmes Estate. We met with Dena and fell in love with the beautiful charm that Abbie has. Every wedding is truly unique. Dena made the wedding planning process (even during covid) stress free. We gave her our vision and she delivered, exceeding our expectations! Everything is so personal. They really care and want you to have the best day. You won’t just be another bride. Our wedding was truly a dream. I wish I could re live it! Anther cool perk Is they have tastings every month! You can go as many times as you want and try tons of delicious food and get decor ideas. This was super fun leading up to our wedding. I would recommend Abbie Holmes to anyone. You will not be disappointed!
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The Abbie Holmes Estate frequently asked questions

The space offered by The Abbie Holmes Estate for wedding events is known for:
  • Banquet Hall
  • Farm/Ranch
  • Historic Building
The Abbie Holmes Estate offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Covered Outdoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
The Abbie Holmes Estate offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
The Abbie Holmes Estate offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Event Planner
The Abbie Holmes Estate is recommended by 98% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.9 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 4.9 in quality of service, 4.9 in average response time, 4.9 in flexibility, 4.9 in professionalism and 4.9 in value.

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