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Bonnet Island Estate is a beautiful coastal wedding venue based in Manahawkin, New Jersey. The team at this magical waterfront setting understands that your wedding day will be one to remember. They want to help make it perfect by hosting your big day on their private coastal island that boasts a destination wedding feel.

Remember those crazy, hazy, lazy days of summer spent on Long Beach Island growing up, or perhaps this is your first time visiting this piece of paradise at the Jersey Shore? You will know you have arrived when you make your way over the causeway, and that familiar sound of waves lapping on the shore and the smell of sea salt comes over you like a wave of nostalgia. You see the iconic blue cedar shake-clad Bonnet Island Estate, and you are reminded of a slower pace, a sense of calm washes over you, and you know you are home. From the elegantly appointed reception room and majestic banquet hall to the private guest suites, they emulate sophistication and luxury. Suitable for both your ceremony and reception, it is the ideal location for couples looking to host their entire wedding in one setting. After a night of dining and dancing, there is also accommodation for up to 24 guests so your loved ones can relax and rejuvenate.

The team at Bonnet Island Estate wants to help make your wedding dreams come true. They offer a range of event services, including rentals, bar services, and catering. To help bring your vision to life, they have event planners who can guide you in designing your dream wedding. They would be honored to be a part of your special day.

Reviews of Bonnet Island Estate

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Patsy G. Sent on 01/08/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Wedding of our dreams!

The wedding was absolutely perfect in every single way. That is no exaggeration. Working with Andrea for the months leading up to our big day was an amazing experience- she’s prompt, honest, experienced, and made me feel like she cared so much about our wedding in a way that was bigger than just being her job. The day of crew of Andrea, Lauren, Nancy, Brooke, and Kaylin made all the difference- every detail was taken care of not just for the Groom and I, but our entire wedding party! They bring professionalism to another level and truly are in the business of making dreams come true! The food, the grounds, the staff were all IMPECCABLE!
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Lisa Sent on 12/21/2021
5 out of 5 rating

The venue of our dreams, with an A+ team

Where to begin!? Bonnet Island was the very first venue we seriously toured, and while we did our due diligence by looking elsewhere, we knew it was the place instantly. From the setting to the design details to the stellar staff, everything was perfect.

Andrea and her team at Weddings of Distinction took such good care of us. When we had to postpone by a full year due to COVID, they were incredibly flexible and let us transfer to a new date we felt more comfortable with. They were helpful with vendor recommendations but were also happy to work with new faces.

Though we brought in our own independent weekend coordinator to help us out, Andrea still inspired confidence that she could have handled the whole weekend herself with her eyes closed — you'd be in great hands with just the Weddings of Distinction team. The whole team, from the bridal attendants (yay Jordan and Kayla!) to the maître d' to the overnight manager, was so great. If there were any logistical hiccups day of, we were blissfully unaware.

Everyone hopes for perfect weather on their wedding day, but I think where Bonnet shone brightest might have been how it faired even on a sub-optimal day with a weather contingency. We had high winds, cloudy skies, and a sprinkle of rain for our October wedding day, but guests could enjoy the open-air, yet covered Boathouse Chapel ceremony and Veranda cocktail hour while still taking in the gorgeous waterfront views.

We ended up with about 165 guests and an 11-piece band, all of which fit very comfortably in the ballroom. I understand the occupancy can go higher, but this was perfect for us — we filled the space but didn't feel overly crowded.

We loved the overnight accommodations (all 12 on-site guest suites are OUT OF THIS WORLD and such a value add) and the fact that we had the full run of the property for an on-site after party. After many hours of dancing in the ballroom, we set up late-night karaoke in the main floor of the house, which went until the wee hours of the morning. The Bonnet/Weddings of Distinction team really helped our unique vision come to life and encouraged us to be creative with the space!

Our guests keep saying it was the most beautiful setting for a wedding, and they're 100% right. For that, we can't thank the team at Bonnet enough!
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Kendell M. Sent on 11/18/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Absolutely perfect!

A dream come true. The estate, it’s amenities, the staff, the food, the grounds….all of it is a 10/10 and made our wedding weekend beyond our expectations!! It’s more than a beautiful venue…it’s an experience. We often reflect on how choosing Bonnet was the best decision we made around our wedding and how we’re so grateful. Andrea is incredible — so attentive, patient, kind, professional and a joy to work with. The whole team is!! They truly make you feel like Bonnet is yours - for the wedding weekend and forever. We cannot recommend Bonnet Island Estate enough - it’s absolutely gorgeous and every single thing is taken care of so seamlessly and professionally. Thank you for everything Bonnet team!!!!!!
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