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About

Southern Oaks is a wedding and event venue in Gilbert, SC, on Highway 378, minutes from Lexington and Lake Murray. At Southern Oaks, we strive to make your day as relaxing as possible. We can do as much or as little as you want. Southern Oaks offers decoration packages, including CUSTOMIZED DECORATIONS AND FRESH FLORAL ARRANGMENTS, including ALL setups and decorations breakdowns. These optional packages are added to the regular venue rental.

Facilities

The house, which is now the face of Southern Oaks, was built in 1820. Still with its original shiplap and design, this historic farmhouse is the perfect setting for a Southern wedding. It includes a Bridal Suite, a Groom's Room, a Den Area for parents and grandparents to relax, and an additional Bridal Loft for large wedding parties. The home is filled with large, elegant chandeliers and stunning furniture. The property has 2 historic barns, a chapel, a large outdoor patio with tables, a fire pit, and a bar. Southern Oaks has one of the largest reception buildings in Lexington County and one of the few with a designated building for a chapel or separate cocktail hour space. There are 2 arbors onsite and beautiful spaces shaded for outdoor ceremonies. The land is full of large pecan and oak trees, multiple arbors, and a breathtaking landscape. Evergreens surround this property, and its well-manicured lawn makes it a beautiful space every month of the year.

Parking

  • Paved Parking for approximately 200 guest
  • Handicapped Parking

Capacity

  • Reception Hall - 285
  • Chapel - 200
  • Lawn Event - 300+
  • Handicap Accessible

Services Offered

  • Venue Rental
  • Includes Tables, Chairs and Linens
  • Indoor & Outdoor Ceremony Spaces
  • Decoration & Fresh Floral Packages (Includes Set Up/Break Down)
  • Planning
  • Bartenders (you provide your own beverages)

Location Details:

  • Located 8 miles from Lexington and about 5 miles from Batesburg
  • Located 5 minutes from Lexington High School
  • Across from Shore Road & JC's Outdoors
  • Minutes from Lake Murray and plenty of house rentals.

Venue rental is based on the day and month of the event.

What You'll Love About Southern Oaks

Couples have praised them for their exceptional service and helpfulness during the big day. They also found the venue stunning, with beautiful decorations. Check out the 360 tour for a sneak peek of what your wedding day could look like.

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Frequently asked questions

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during peak season?

$2,500

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during off-peak season?

$2,125

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during peak season?

$2,500

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during off-peak season?

$2,125

Which of the following are included in the starting site fee?

Bridal Suite
Chairs
Clean Up
Linens
Parking
Set Up
Tables

Which of the following are included in the cost of wedding catering?

Cake Cutting
Dessert
Server(s)

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

Bartender(s)
House Liquor
House Wine

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

7

Describe your venue:

Barn
Historic Building

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Covered Outdoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party
Elopements
Rehearsal Dinner

What event services do you offer?

Event Planner
Event Rentals
Get Ready Rooms
Outside Vendors
Pet Friendly
Wifi

What event items are available?

Altar/Arch
Centerpieces
Chairs
Dance Floor
Furniture
Tables

What food and beverage items are available?

Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Wheelchair Access

What months are included in your peak season?

March
April
May
June
September
October
November
December

What months are included in your off-peak season?

January
February
July
August

Reviews of Southern Oaks

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Southern Oaks is a beautiful, homey venue that made planning simple and stress-free, with flexible packages to suit various budgets. The team was attentive, handled vendor coordination and day-of details, and ensured the event ran smoothly. Many couples highly recommend it for a seamless wedding experience.

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Southern Oaks is a beautiful, homey venue that made planning simple and stress-free, with flexible packages to suit various budgets. The team was attentive, handled vendor coordination and day-of details, and ensured the event ran smoothly. Many couples highly recommend it for a seamless wedding experience.

Kensly
Kensly Sent on 06/14/2020
5 out of 5 rating

The absolute best!

I cannot imagine my wedding taking place anywhere besides Southern Oaks!

I opted to do the package with them which included catering, bar tending staff, chairs for both ceremony and reception, so much beautiful decor, and so so so much more. For this reason, and so many other reasons, my wedding planning process and wedding day were so stress free and relaxing. Being a very hands on person, it was AMAZING to sit back and relax and trust that every detail was being tended to.

Pam and Bre- you guys are amazing and I cannot thank you enough! Your expertise made my wedding what it was without a doubt!
Damien, thank you for coordinating our wedding day! It all ran so smoothly and we felt taken care of all day long!

All of the time, effort, and genuine care the entire team at Southern Oaks puts in for each bride from start to finish, including me, is another reason I highly recommend this venue.

Thank you Pam, Bre, Damien, and the rest of the team at Southern Oaks. There isn’t anyone else we would’ve trusted with our wedding 😊
Kayla
Kayla Sent on 02/06/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Lovely Venue for your Lovely Day

Such an incredible venue with the best team! We loved every recommendation they gave us and ended up meeting some of the most amazing people. Everything felt simple and stress-free, so we could really be present and focus on marrying the love of my life
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Payton Sent on 02/03/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Best Wedding Venue!

I am absolutely in awe of this venue! As we toured different venues trying to find the one, Southern Oaks stood out above the rest! They have such a homey feel and truly make you feel special about having your wedding there. Not to mention how beautiful it is! They are so flexible as we go though wedding planning and have different options for all budgets. I can’t wait to get married here!
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Rachel Sent on 02/03/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing!!!

I am so excited for my wedding in May.  Pam and Bre have been absolutely fantastic!!
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Wendy Sent on 01/14/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Absolutely amazing

Pam and Bre were amazing to work with from the start of the planning process to the end of the reception. Bre was on-site the day of the wedding as well as the wedding coordinator making sure everything went as planned. They ensured the vendors were setup and ready to go and everything went off as planned. When we got to the venue the morning of the wedding we didn’t have to worry about anything. I wholeheartedly recommend Southern Oaks! They were instrumental in making sure my daughters vision of the perfect wedding was executed seamlessly.
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Aubrey Sent on 06/01/2023
5 out of 5 rating

The perfect wedding venue!

I cannot say enough great things about southern oaks! From the very start they were great and very responsive to any questions or concerns we had. The coordinator made our day run so smoothly that I had no stress at all. Not to mention the newbie itself is stunning. Our guests kept coming up to us all night to say how beautiful the whole venue was. Their in house floral also is absolutely amazing. I got constant compliments on my bouquet. I definitely recommend getting married here!
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Jessica Sent on 11/13/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing wedding venue

Best venue by far love the staff and the grounds staff is so helpful and has made the wedding process so easy
Katelin
Katelin Sent on 11/08/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Memories to be

We took a tour of Southern Oaks a few weeks back and we couldn’t have found a more perfect venue. I have always visioned being wedded under a large oak tree on an open lawn and that’s exactly what was offered! Our date is set for November 2, 2024 which comes to a surprise for some family and friends since it’s not exactly right around the corner, but the wait does not matter to us. For I am certain that this is where I want our memories to be made.
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Aubrey Sent on 10/28/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect venue

I will be getting married here next year, 05/23 and we could not be more excited! Pam has been very attentive and it always ready to answer questions. My future sister in law got married here in 2019 and it was so beautiful and she had such a smooth and perfect day because off all of the staff!
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Danielle Sent on 10/28/2022
5 out of 5 rating

My husband and I got married at SO!

The staff made my wedding day the most stress free and enjoyable that it could’ve possibly been! I recommend ALL of my friends to get married there! It’s so convenient as an all-inclusive venue
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Awards

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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2023 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2022 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2021 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2020 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2018 Winner

Professional Network & Endorsements

Preferred Vendors
Haley Joy Photography
5.0 out of 5 rating , 6 reviews
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Ashley Moore Walker - Wedding Officiant and Ceremony Designer
5.0 out of 5 rating , 41 reviews
· Wedding Officiants

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Southern Oaks frequently asked questions

Southern Oaks includes the following items and services for wedding events in its starting site fee:
  • Bridal Suite
  • Chairs
  • Clean Up
  • Linens
  • Parking
  • Set Up
  • Tables
Southern Oaks includes the following items and services in its wedding catering costs:
  • Cake Cutting
  • Dessert
  • Server(s)
The bar service starting price at Southern Oaks includes:
  • Bartender(s)
  • House Liquor
  • House Wine
The space offered by Southern Oaks for wedding events is known for:
  • Barn
  • Historic Building
Southern Oaks offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Covered Outdoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
Southern Oaks offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
  • Bridal Shower
  • Engagement Party
  • Elopements
  • Rehearsal Dinner
Southern Oaks offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Event Planner
  • Event Rentals
  • Get Ready Rooms
  • Outside Vendors
  • Pet Friendly
  • Wifi
Southern Oaks offers the following furniture and decor items for weddings:
  • Altar/Arch
  • Centerpieces
  • Chairs
  • Dance Floor
  • Furniture
  • Tables
Southern Oaks is recommended by 98% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.9 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 5 in quality of service, 4.9 in average response time, 4.9 in flexibility, 4.9 in professionalism and 4.9 in value.
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