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About this vendor

Ava D'arcy
Ava D'arcy
Co-founder

Woman-owned

1 year in business

We speak English, French, Russian and Spanish

Small team (2-10 members)

Silk & Shadows is based in Portland, Oregon, and provides wedding planning services that embrace the unconventional. Sasha Mereu and Ava D'arcy co-founded this team with an ethos that blends gothic romance with elegant atmosphere and dramatic detail. These planners collaborate closely with each couple, taking a personal approach to realizing their unique vision.

Services Offered

Silk & Shadows can assist a couple with an engagement party, rehearsal dinner, ceremony, and reception. This team is happy to support any aesthetic that a couple desires, whether a soft and light color palette or a dramatic and moody ambience. They can provide day-of coordination, partial planning, and full planning, including officiation services. A couple can call on this team for empathetic and organized assistance to bring their dreams to life.

FAQ

What is the starting price for day-of wedding coordination?

$999

What is the starting price for partial wedding planning?

$1,999

What is the starting price for full wedding planning?

$4,999

Do you offer an hourly rate?

No

What wedding events do you provide services for?

Ceremony
Reception
Rehearsal Dinner
Engagement Party

What wedding planning services do you offer?

Day-of Coordination
Full Planning
Partial Planning

What weddings do you have experience planning?

Civil
Cultural
Destination
Double Weddings
Elopement
Eco-Friendly
Military
Non-Religious
Religious

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Wedding couple

Reviews of Silk & Shadows

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Jinger Sent on 11/21/2025
5 out of 5 rating

It was phenomenal

We had the most amazing time at the wedding that was put on by Silk and Shadows! Every last detail from the decor, to the clever games, to the overall flow was considered and executed with unique style from pre-ceremony ‘till the end of the night! You’d be lucky to grab them to plan your event while they’re still relatively a secret, they won’t stay that way for long…. I would bet on that!
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Ryan Sent on 11/21/2025
5 out of 5 rating

You will not be disappointed, S&SW is highly recommended for unique weddings

Amazing wedding!! Every detail was covered…the entire event and evening was superbly memorable. Their style is tasteful and unique!! Book a wedding with them and …in fact you’ll absolutely love it. Five stars all the way!!
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Nintendo Sent on 11/21/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Definitely very original and fresh

The wedding I attended was unlike any other I’ve been to, and was an amazing experience to have. It’s original, fun, and a breath of fresh air to see the theme lean away from the average wedding you’d see anywhere else. I would highly recommend Silk & Shadows if you want to give your guests the best experience possible!
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Sharon Sent on 11/21/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Exceeds all expectations!

The wedding we attended in October was hands down the most extraordinary wedding we have ever had the honor to attend. If you want to skip the typical, interchangeable blah weddings we've all been to and give your guests an utterly unforgettable experience at your dream wedding, Silk & Shadows can deliver!
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Casson Sent on 11/21/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Very Professional Team

I went to a wedding designed by S & S recently. It was absolutely amazing. Stylish, fun and comfortable. I would highly recommend these guys for ANY wedding that needs some classing-up.
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Chiara Sent on 11/21/2025
5 out of 5 rating

I was a wedding guest

The vibe of this was just perfect, it was dark but felt warm in a sense. And with gothic sorts of things decorators usually sneak in a Halloween undertone but this was just dark gothic max with the feeling of home. 100% would attend again.
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Caitlin Sent on 11/21/2025
5 out of 5 rating

It was absolutely unique

I recently attended a wedding styled by Silk & Shadows, and upon leaving, I specifically sought out the contact information to give to a friend, because it was such a unique, moody vibe! The details were impeccable, and the overall ambiance and experience created made for a classy, unforgettable event. Highly recommend!
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Floza Sent on 11/21/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Silk & Shadows: highly recommended

The wedding was amazing! My guest and I had an exceptional time. The venue had just the right amount of whimsy and the decorations were beautiful. Would highly recommend!
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Susie Sent on 11/21/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Absolute loveliness!

Silk & Shadows created a "love magic" environment.
From the incredible table settings, flowers and decor to perfect event timing,
Silk & Shadows created an ambience with class and style!
In addition, there were so many subtle details that were handled with a creativity that helped to make the event memorable. The appetizer and cake tables were beautiful and the cuisine was managed impeccably. I can recommend this event planning service without reservations. They will bring your dream wedding visions to life! You will be beyond pleased!!!
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Joel Sent on 11/21/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Super strong styling!

First wedding I’ve been do with a Silk and Shadow’s created theme! I really felt that they captured a complete vibe both visually and in the ambiance itself! I would highly recommend for anyone wanting a strong theme for their special day. In addition, Silk and Shadows streamlines the planning process making it as effortless as can be.
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Team

Sasha Mereu
Sasha Mereu
Co-founder
Ava D'arcy
Ava D'arcy
Co-founder

Professional Network & Endorsements

Victorian Belle
4.5 out of 5 rating , 51 reviews
· Historic Weddings
Blockhouse
4.9 out of 5 rating , 15 reviews
· Banquet Halls
The Evergreen
4.9 out of 5 rating , 16 reviews
· Historic Weddings

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