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Ruth Ellen Hasser is a highly-rated wedding officiant located in Saint Louis, Missouri. Ruth is a professional wedding officiant, nondenominational minister, and Life Cycle Celebrant. Her goal is to provide you with a wedding ceremony that is customized to reflect your love. This officiant works with engaged couples throughout the local area, including Saint Louis County, Saint Charles County, and Jefferson County. She is also licensed to officiate weddings in Kansas and Illinois.

Services Offered

Ruth Ellen Hasser has officiated at secular, spiritual, and interfaith wedding ceremonies. She offers a range of packages to suit the style of any couple, all of which include unlimited script consultations and revisions. One of her top priorities is to honor and celebrate your individual beliefs and motivations in life. Ruth allows couples to say their own choice of vows and can offer a helping hand with writing them. Past couples have commented on the professionalism, warmth, and joy that their ceremony was treated with.

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Frequently asked questions

Which of the following are included in the price of your wedding officiant services?

Ceremony Rehearsal

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$500

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Baha'i Faith
Buddhist
Earth-Based
Hindu
Islam
Jewish
No Denomination
Pagan
Shinto
Sikhism
Taoist
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.
30-60 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

IL
KS
MO

What languages do you speak?

English

Reviews of Ruth Ellen Hasser

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Sid S. Sent on 11/15/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Ruth was truly amazing and made our evening so special

Words cannot expressed how please we are with how everything turned out. Ruth made our evening so special - she told our story in the most beautiful way. There wasn’t a dry tear in the room - she made us laugh and made us cry. Our families and friends would describe the service in one word “beautiful” - to us it as so special and something we would remember forever. If we could rate 1-10, we’d give it a 20 - we were just so pleased and happy with how everything went anti was all thanks to Ruth. Thank you for everything and helping make our day special.
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Michael Sent on 09/07/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Ruth is Awesome!

Ruth was absolutely wonderful to work with. She helped guide my wife and I through the process and was very professional. I’d highly recommend Ruth to anyone for their wedding :-). Thank you for all you do Ruth!
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Chase Sent on 09/05/2022
5 out of 5 rating

10/10 would recommend Ruth

Ruth was amazing. We enjoyed talking with her before the ceremony and she was very flexible and took our input into account and changed the ceremony accordingly.
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Audra Sent on 12/14/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Ruth is absolutely wonderful!

Ruth is so great! She so efficient and easy to work with. I feel like we only have to have few phone calls during the entire planning process which was a huge weight off my shoulders. She’s very open to any needs or wants we had and was extremely easy to work with. Love Ruth so much and so grateful she performed our ceremony. Aww
Christy
Christy Sent on 12/13/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Highly Recommend for a Personalized Ceremony

My husband and I highly recommend Ruth Ellen Hasser. She did an amazing job officiating our ceremony – in fact, many of our guests said it was the best ceremony they’ve attended. Why? Because Ruth helped us personalize every aspect of it. We met with her a few times and answered questions about us and our relationship. We asked a lot of questions of our own and asked for suggestions, and she was happy to help. Ruth let us a review (and edit) a draft of the ceremony and on the day of our wedding, the short ceremony was perfect for us.
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Bethany Sent on 12/06/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Great experience and very responsive

Ruth was awesome during the whole process. Very thoughtful and experienced. Ruth was easy to work with and willing to work with our crazy schedules for zoom meetings and that was a blessing because we live in another state. She gave us so many examples to choose from and was very open to customization. Overall the planning process went a lot smoother due to her experience.
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Brian Sent on 12/06/2021
5 out of 5 rating

5 Star Service!

Ruth was fantastic for us! She was able to provide the cermony of our dreams and was able to tell our story to everyone in attandance in a beautful, heartfelt manner. She kept it light, funny but most importantly, romantic and special. We had so many friends and family members come up to us afterwards and said how special and well done the cermony was. I would recommend Ruth in a heartbeat!
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Kathleen Sent on 12/06/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Ruth is the best of the best when it comes to wedding officiants!

After hearing Ruth speak at our ceremony, it's kind of hard to believe that she didn't know us prior to our wedding. She explained the story of us so well, it's like she was present for it! She captured every detail of our history and story! Ruth is such a kind and caring soul. She is extremely accommodating, responsive, and helpful. She helped provide us with tips and formats so that our ceremony was everything that we wanted it to be and ran as smooth as it could have ever gone. We are so happy that we booked with Ruth for our special day!
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Mallory Sent on 12/04/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful working with Ruth!

Ruth was great to work with! She was very easy to talk to and we really enjoyed her writing style. Very professional and really cared about what we were looking for in our ceremony. We would definitely recommend Ruth to any couple!!!
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Kathleen Sent on 10/18/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful experience

Ruth was wonderful to work with! She created an amazing draft of our ceremony and worked with us to get it into its final shape. She did a great job wrangling people and giving out instructions at our rehearsal. And on the day of, she did a fantastic job! We absolutely recommend her! And wish we could give more than 5 stars!
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Awards

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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2022 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2021 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2020 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2019 Winner
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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2012 Winner

Professional Network & Endorsements

6 Endorsements
J. Pollack Photography J. Pollack Photography Wedding Photographers

Ruth is a fantastic officiant who builds a wedding ceremony just the way that couples want. She does a stellar job of taking any special rituals or requirements into consideration and keeps her cool while doing her job in front of what can be a large crowd.

Flourish Events & Concierge Flourish Events & Concierge Wedding Planners

I always love working with Ruth and recommend her to my clients whenever I can. She is so calm and easy to work with. She also does a great job of creating a personalized ceremony for the couple. I always learn special things about each love story when Ruth is officiating!

Wonder Weddings Wonder Weddings Wedding Officiants

Ruth Ellen is one of the TOP St. Louis area pros in the wedding industry! All her clients love her.

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