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Rabbi Meredith Cahn is a wedding officiant in Petaluma, California, who specializes in Jewish wedding ceremonies. I weave Jewish traditions with the personal elements of each couple into a unique and meaningful ceremony. I approach each couple and ceremony with respect and honor for culture, beliefs, and other intimate values. I pay special attention to including wedding guests who may or may not be Jewish.

In my over 100 weddings, most are interfaith, and several have been co-officiated with clergy of other traditions or religions, including Hindu priests, Protestant ministers, and Catholic priests. In those—as in all weddings—it is important to me that no one lies under the chuppah, so everyone is represented as authentically as possible.

I explain all the rituals so that both you and your guests can access the spiritual depths they represent and present the love you share.

Services Offered

I personalize each ceremony experience by meeting multiple times with each couple to know and understand your story and desires for the ceremony. I am available to perform officiating services for vow renewals, civil unions, non-religious, single-religion, and interfaith ceremonies. As a rabbi, I am a licensed wedding officiant.

What You'll Love About Rabbi Meredith Cahn

Couples adore how Rabbi Meredith puts all their guests at ease, no matter their faith. She works with them to craft a ceremony that represents them and explains each element's importance. Peruse the gallery and see the joy felt by all at her ceremonies.

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Which of the following are included in the price of your wedding officiant services?

Ceremony Rehearsal
Premarital Counseling

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

Yes

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Jewish

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

30-60 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

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What languages do you speak?

English

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Rabbi Meredith received glowing reviews for officiating weddings with warmth, inclusivity, and personalization. Couples praised her flexibility in incorporating various traditions, her willingness to collaborate on multi-faith ceremonies, and her dedication to getting to know them personally. Reviewers highlighted her communication skills, compassion, and the meaningful impact she had on their special day, recommending her highly as an exceptional wedding officiant who brings joy and positivity to the ceremony.

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Rabbi Meredith received glowing reviews for officiating weddings with warmth, inclusivity, and personalization. Couples praised her flexibility in incorporating various traditions, her willingness to collaborate on multi-faith ceremonies, and her dedication to getting to know them personally. Reviewers highlighted her communication skills, compassion, and the meaningful impact she had on their special day, recommending her highly as an exceptional wedding officiant who brings joy and positivity to the ceremony.

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Ali Sent on 07/08/2025
5 out of 5 rating

A warm, thoughtful ceremony with Jewish traditions!

Rabbi Meredith officiated our wedding in July 2025, and she did an amazing job! The whole ceremony was just so warm and heartfelt. She called upon Jewish traditions, but in a very modern way, and let us select more "modern" readings to go with our ceremony! She was so flexible to our needs, and is just such a nice and kind person, which gave our ceremony such positive vibes! She also explained everything in detail for non-Jewish guests, which was SO important to us. All in all, our ceremony was a joyful and meaningful moment in our lives--and in the lives of our family, thanks to Rabbi Meredith!
Spencer
Spencer Sent on 11/03/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Thank You Rabbi Cahn!!

Rabbi Cahn did a wonderful job officiating our wedding! From when we first reached out, Rabbi Cahn was communicative and helpful. She answered all of our questions, and helped us navigate all the components of a Jewish wedding to make sure we had the ceremony that we wanted. We really appreciated her openness to adapting the ceremony so it felt right for us, especially as only one of us is Jewish.

Rabbi Cahn truly made the ceremony special. She took the time to get to know us beforehand with both in-person and virtual meetings, so she could make our ceremony personal to us. It really made a difference!
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Andrew Sent on 10/20/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful Rabbi for Unique Interfaith Wedding

Our wedding would not have been the same if we didn't choose Rabbi Meredith. I'm Jewish and my wife is Hindu. We were looking for a Rabbi that would be open-minded and flexible about participating in a combined Jewish/Hindu wedding ceremony and co-officiating with a Hindu priest. This was a tall order, but Rabbi Meredith was genuinely excited to learn about the Hindu traditions and was extremely collaborative with us. With her help and guidance, we came up with a customized wedding ceremony program that beautifully blended together the most important parts of both religious ceremonies. Rabbi Meredith took the time to get to know us and our families before the ceremony and we already felt so comfortable with her before the wedding began. She did a great job officiating the complicated ceremony, and she brought a joyful, warm, funny and loving presence to every experience and interaction, both with us and with our families. Thank you Rabbi Meredith!
Zach
Zach Sent on 10/18/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Rabbi Meredith is the absolute best!!!

Rabbi Meredith is simply amazing. She officiated our wedding in 2022 and was truly wonderful throughout the process. However, that doesn't do her justice. Rabbi Meredith spent quality time getting to know us both individually and as a couple and wrote the most beautiful address that our close friends couldn't have written. Even more than doing a great job during the wedding day, Rabbi Meredith became a very dear friend and remains a very important person in our lives. She has a heart of gold and we're lucky to remain so close to her. I cannnot recommend her high enough. She's such a special human being. We genuinely love her and you will too.
SFDRGON
Sfdrgon Sent on 10/17/2024
5 out of 5 rating

For the most important moment of your life

Rabbi Meredith is a truly exceptional active participant in the most important moment of your life. Her communication, compassion and understanding as well as responsiveness to any of our requests and questions made everything absolutely magical. Thank you for making this moment truly special !
Jessica
Jessica Sent on 01/02/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Highly Recommend!

Rabbi Meredith married my husband and I on October 15, 2022 and it was such a great experience! We planned the wedding fairly quickly (in 5 months) and Rabbi Meredith was the first officiant we talked to.

She was very up front about what parts of the ceremony were non-negotiable and which parts were flexible. Any time that I raised concerns about any part of the ceremony design, Rabbi Meredith tried to understand the reasoning behind those concerns, and then either agreed with me to change the ceremony or explained why we should keep things as-is and convinced me! I had initially been skeptical about the officiant’s address, but on the day of, I loved it: I was cracking up at how she wove our words together, and I thought the message that she added to tie it all together was beautiful.

Rabbi Meredith was also a huge hit among our guests, especially the non-Jews! I think they really appreciated her explanations for each of the customs. So many people came up to us during the reception and were raving about her. Thanks again to Rabbi Meredith for making our ceremony so special.
Stephanie
Stephanie Sent on 12/07/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Thoughtful and heartfelt!

Rabbi Meredith made the entire wedding ceremony process enjoyable. She took time to get to know us and create a ceremony that matched our personalities. I (the bride) was raised Catholic and had recently converted to Judaism and the groom was raised Orthodox Jewish. Half of the wedding guests were Jewish and the other half were not, and Rabbi Meredith did an amazing job of making it enjoyable and easy to understand for everyone. I had so many people come up to me during the reception saying how great the ceremony was and how she made it so easy to understand what was going on and why you do certain things in a Jewish wedding ceremony. It was such a wonderful evening and I'm so happy that Rabbi Meredith was a part of it!
Jacqui
Jacqui Sent on 11/19/2021
5 out of 5 rating

An inclusive and thoughtful rabbi

From the bride: Rabbi Meredith helped us think through and create a lovely wedding ceremony that fit the needs of our family, community, and our beliefs. She gave us thought-provoking homework to spur conversations amongst ourselves about the life we are building together, and though I'm not Jewish (my husband is) she made planning aspects of our Jewish ceremony very relatable and pleasant. Even more importantly, she helped us emphasize or adjust the elements of the ceremony that were most important so that our families could equally participate in showering us with their love and blessings - my mother has been to hundreds of weddings and was blown away by the intimacy of ours.
From the groom: We keep getting compliments on our service and Meredith months afterwards. I am so thankful for her help making our wedding a spiritual bond, not just a recitation of lines. Was a great friend to work with and we are so grateful for her work!
Roxanne
Roxanne Sent on 11/04/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Great experience!

Rabbi Meredith was amazing! It was a bit difficult finding rabbis in my area that would be willing to lead an Interfaith wedding, but when we stumbled upon Rabbi Meredith, we knew we wanted to book her. Rabbi Meredith took the time to get to know us when doing so was hard (COVID times). She was extremely gentle with us and our lack of knowledge regarding a Jewish ceremony but never led us to feel like we were silly for not knowing. Not only was Rabbi Meredith awesome in leading up to the wedding, but the actual ceremony was awesome. We laughed, we cried, we hugged, and Rabbi Meredith led an extremely beautiful ceremony. After the wedding, we had multiple friends and loved ones come up to us and let us know that this had actually been one of their favorite ceremonies ever! Rabbi Meredith explained each ceremony and its significance for it and really made for an easy-to-understand process. I would absolutely recommend Rabbi Meredith to a friend, loved one, or even stranger!
Anna
Anna Sent on 03/07/2020
5 out of 5 rating

So Pleasant to Work With

Very late review, but I will say that working with Rabbi Cahn was a very pleasant experience and her ceremony was so warm and inviting - both a bit funny and informative and overall so lovely. We and our guests enjoyed it - even some guests said it was the best wedding they've ever been to. Thank you, Rabbi, for working with us, getting to know us, and making our ceremony feel so special.
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Stillwater Cinematography Stillwater Cinematography Wedding Videographers

Meredith was warm and enthusiastic about the Wedding that we worked together at in Lake Tahoe! It was a joy to be in her presence and we felt very comfortable around her. Thanks Meredith for the sweet words you shared for us on here! We are about to share the Highlight Film from their wedding, it's so good!! See you around! All our Best, Zachariah and Team at Stillwater Cinematography

Karenscape Photography Karenscape Photography Wedding Photographers

Rabbi Meredith conducted the most beautiful, articulate, funny, meaningful, entertaining, and educational ceremony I have ever been witness to, and I have been shooting weddings for 14 years. She was so funny, so present and so articulate. Her ability to talk about the couple's history and what they meant to each other was amazingly beautiful. I highly recommend her to anyone wanting a meaningful and unforgettable ceremony that will be a pleasure to both them and their guests. She will enrich and deepen your wedding experience. As a wedding photographer I can also tell you that she is so engaged in the moment that her expressions add to the wedding photos in a great way! I love her and you will too!

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