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Meet your Wedding Officiant, Paul Costanzo:

Congratulations on your engagement! So you're planning a wedding celebration. A venue, a ceremony, a photographer, a DJ, a limo, a dress, a tux, a caterer, a cake, flowers, invitations and........... deciding on who is all going to be there. DEEP BREATH. You've got this. OK, but back to the ceremony. THAT is my profession – my passion – my purpose. Oh, and I certainly know that the Wedding Ceremony is all about YOU – not me – as I am somewhat the director of a short performance with the two of you in the leading roles with me gently leading you through the ceremony. Your wedding day is a day of respect and dignity where family and friends gather out of the love that they have for you – and sometimes for the love that they have for your parents as well. You want the ceremony to be presented with poise in the structure – and with your consent – adding bit of charm and levity and personality magically sprinkled into the celebration. Talk about smiles and misty eyes – especially in that front row about 10 feet from the two of you. I have worked with wedding couples since the 1990s and have officiated over 1500 weddings with no two being the same – well, because of the differences in choices in the creative process (oh, do I have ideas and suggestions) and most of all because everyone is different. And whether you get married at Miller Park or your own decorated back yard the effort will be the same. The three of us will carefully choose the ingredients that will make the ceremony memorable. The energy that I have for what I can do is limitless yet I know when to put on the brakes and temper that enthusiasm.

Once you inquire about your wedding date I will check my schedule and if available I will ask for one visit so that I can hear your thoughts on the type of ceremony you would like and give you suggestions that best fit that direction (traditional – spiritual – contemporary). These meetings are typically an hour. I would very much like to hear how you met – what you do that keeps the relationship ticking – and whatever you would like to share so that I might incorporate some ideas into your personal ceremony. I take all sorts of notes and if you choose to have me officiate I will create a contract to secure my services and then send you a Ceremony Template based on that one meeting to get you started with the personal ceremony. I will continue then to assist all the way to your wedding day by email or phone calls. The ceremony will be created by the THREE of us – it's a team effort. I promise you that it will be done properly and presented in a way that you will be proud to present to all of your guests.

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Frequently asked questions

Which of the following are included in the price of your wedding officiant services?

Ceremony Rehearsal

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$75

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Baptist
Catholic
Episcopalian
Jewish
Lutheran
Methodist
Mormon
No Denomination
Presbyterian
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

AL
AK
AZ
AR
CA
CO
CT
DE
DC
FL
GA
HI
ID
IL
IN
IA
KS
KY
LA
ME
MD
MA
MI
MN
MS
MO
MT
NE
NV
NH
NJ
NM
NY
NC
ND
OH
OK
OR
PA
RI
SC
SD
TN
TX
UT
VT
VA
WA
WV
WI
WY

What languages do you speak?

English
Spanish

Reviews of New Beginnings Wedding Ceremonies

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Paul is highly praised by multiple reviewers for his exceptional officiating services at weddings. Reviewers commend him for being communicative, organized, and attentive to personalizing ceremonies. Paul's ability to capture couples' love, incorporate unique elements, and ensure a smooth and memorable wedding ceremony is consistently highlighted in the reviews. His professionalism, humor, and dedication to creating a personalized and unforgettable experience for couples and guests make him a highly recommended choice for officiating weddings.

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Paul is highly praised by multiple reviewers for his exceptional officiating services at weddings. Reviewers commend him for being communicative, organized, and attentive to personalizing ceremonies. Paul's ability to capture couples' love, incorporate unique elements, and ensure a smooth and memorable wedding ceremony is consistently highlighted in the reviews. His professionalism, humor, and dedication to creating a personalized and unforgettable experience for couples and guests make him a highly recommended choice for officiating weddings.

Ashley
Ashley Sent on 11/05/2024
5 out of 5 rating

The best out there!

We got married on 9/14 and could not recommend Paul enough. From the first time reading things Paul had written online describing himself, I knew his personality was the exact type of person I'd love to hire to officiate our wedding. We set up a meeting in person with Paul and within the half hour conversation we were sure that Paul would be able to deliver us a wonderful wedding ceremony. And man, we were not disappointed. One of the most complimented things about our wedding was how well our officiant did to capture our love and share it with our guests. People felt like we had known Paul for years, and truth be told, every conversation with him made us feel the exact same way. Paul was very communicative throughout the process and made sure that the script for the ceremony was written in a way that we wanted it to be. We are so grateful for Paul for helping to make our wedding ceremony beautiful and memorable. If you are looking, and he is available, I wouldn't waste your time and I would be sure to snatch Paul up for your own wedding!
Vicki
Vicki Sent on 10/31/2024
5 out of 5 rating

I couldn’t imagine anyone else marrying us!

Paul is an amazing choice for an officiant. He is organized, has a ton of ideas and most importantly listens to you as a couple to ensure your day is exactly how you imagined it. Paul pays attention to the small details which make your wedding stand out and be memorable. He does a fantastic job at organizing your wedding party and working with the vendors so you don’t have to worry about a thing on your big day. Paul takes your day very seriously but will ensure you have fun every step of the way! We are so lucky we found Paul and could not recommend him enough!
Michelle
Michelle Sent on 10/23/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Wedding Ceremony Made Easy with Paul

Paul is the best officiant ever! My husband (Mike) and I could not have had such a beautiful ceremony without him. When we first met with Paul, it was like we had known him forever. He was so flexible when meeting with us and called us right away regarding our wedding date (10/12/2024). His suggestions and ideas allowed us to choose 3 readings for our wedding (nothing too fancy but totally customized to us and our family). He took into account our want to incorporate our 9 year old girls throughout our ceremony. He made it all so easy and really let us take the reigns while also ensuring everything ran smoothly. Our day was perfect and if I had to do it all over again I'd choose Paul to be our officiant every time. Thank you Paul for helping us and making our day so special. - The Elst's
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Jeremy Sent on 10/13/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Professional, personalized, organized, THE GUY YOU WANT MARRYING YOU!

Paul is absolutely amazing. He helped us create an “US” centered ceremony that is as unique as our story. Paul worked with our needs and gave us the ceremony that we will cherish forever. Paul used humor appropriately and heartfelt words to make the ceremony not only special, but easy. He’s one in a million. I would say that I’d definitely use him again, but that would undermine the use of his service :)
In all fairness, he’a great! You won’t regret selecting Paul as your officiant.
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Courtney Sent on 08/23/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Unique, easy and customizable ceremony

Paul has been doing this for quite a while so he knows how to plan a wedding ceremony. He will make sure all of the i's and t's are dotted and crossed so you will be in good hands! We were given a template that was completely customizeable so it was easy to add or remove things to make it special to us. If this is your first wedding this is extremely helpful. Neither my now husband nor I knew what needed to be done so having Paul guide us was wonderful. He is very passionate about creating a ceremony personalized to you so that it will be one to remember. He worked very well with our chosen venue and had worked with them in the past so he had familiarity with the indoor and outdoor spaces where they hold the ceremonies which was helpful. He communicated with us every step of the way including mentioning he would be mailing in our marriage application the very next day. All in all the 3 of us created the perfect wedding ceremony and I wouldn't change a thing.
Liz
Liz B. Sent on 07/05/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Much More Than a Typical Wedding Ceremony

If you want a ceremony that’s genuine, thoughtful, unique, and unforgettable, you’ll want to book Paul for your wedding. Beyond being super communicative throughout the process, he took the time to explain how the ceremony would go and then worked with us to customize it so it was perfect for us. He had wonderful suggestions, like having a time capsule at the reception where our guests could write notes to us that we can read on our 1-year anniversary along with letters we wrote to each other. And he confirmed details of the ceremony multiple times to ensure it went off without a hitch and was exactly how we wanted it. He was also very respectful of our wedding photographers and took the time to meet them and work with them to ensure they could get their best shots.

Paul’s true gift was being able to keep everything running smoothly while keeping the focus completely on us. He deftly moved off to the side throughout the ceremony, especially during special moments like the ring exchange and vows, so that our guests and our photographers could see, hear, and concentrate on us. We had so many guests comment on how funny and engaging Paul was and what a wonderful ceremony it was, which made our special day so much more memorable for our guests.

We also were able to take advantage of Paul’s photography talents and hired him to do portrait photography during our cocktail hour to keep our guests entertained. The night before the wedding, we had to scramble to move the entire ceremony indoors because of rain, were dealing with broken air conditioning in the venue, and realized where we originally thought Paul could set up his photo backdrop wouldn’t work. Our nerves were frazzled, to say the least. Paul never flinched and calmly talked us through how he could make the photo setup work, and he made it work perfectly! It gave our guests something fun to do while we were busy taking family photos and enabled us to provide them with a memorable thank-you gift. (Quick tip: If you plan to do this, Paul let guests know before the ceremony started that it would be happening, and we also put cards at each place setting letting them know this was our gift to them and we would be sending them their portraits after the wedding). Paul captured so many funny and lovely portraits of our guests and our kids, and we had so much fun looking through them on our honeymoon (because he also mailed us the digital files right away).

Thank you, Paul, for making our day unforgettable!
Sally
Sally Sent on 12/06/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Very passionate and confident

Paul made the process very easy! He was really flexible when we wanted things a certain way, or didn't want traditional aspects. Some of his suggestions didn't fit with our style, but he listened to us and adapted to our needs.

The ceremony went SO smoothly, he was SO helpful and thoughtful. The "repeat after me" part, he stood away from us and held the mic towards us and the audience couldn't hear Paul say the words - everyone asked us afterwards if we had memorized the lines because they could only hear us reciting them! So cool. He stood out of the way for photos so we have some really amazing pictures just the two of us under our chuppah. Also he explained the Jewish step on the glass tradition flawlessly and had a sense of humor with it.

Oh - also my MOH signed in the officiant spot instead of the witness's line and he got it all sorted out LOL. All in all just a great experience. I would say I'd be a returning customer, but I sure hope I won't be!! :) Thanks for everything Paul!!
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Michael Sent on 12/02/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Made the day even more special

Paul was prompt, communicative and efficient. The wedding party loved him. We even received some compliments from our guests. He was very suggestive but did not push anything onto you. Our ceremony was perfect and it was all thanks to Paul.
Connie
Connie Sent on 06/07/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Unique, Special, and FUN

We can’t say enough great things about Paul and his special, sparkling personality! He is professional and a great officiant, but yet funny, down to earth, and genuine. It was like being married by a good friend!
He helped us create a ceremony that was unique to us and appreciated by our friends and family who are still talking about the ceremony and how great Paul was. Our personal stories are filled with loss, but Paul was able to present those details in a way that honored us, our families, and our lost loved ones and still kept the mood celebratory.
We highly recommend him!
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Greg Sent on 05/08/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Simply incredible

Paul's glowing reviews do not lie. He has a great personality, is solely focused on the couples wants, and will deliver with unquestioned professionalism. He was willing to double book his weekend in order to fit in our ceremony with meeting with us about 10 weeks out. His experience is undoubted. He walked us through a basic model of what a ceremony could look like, but also came up with new ways to make it our own. Of course, the final decision is up to you, and he will never lose sight of that.

For rehearsal he wrangled our troops with ease (not so easy to do) and made sure the venue staff was in line with what our needs as a couple were. He had pointed out details of what the venue thought the ceremony should look like, when he knew best. Again, experience undoubted. He will work tirelessly to make sure you have the ceremony of your dreams.

Even though Paul was one of the later details we finalized, he absolutely was one of the best parts of our weekend. He's compassionate toward family dynamics, a voice of reason, and so much more. If you're on the fence about an officiant for your wedding, don't be.

He is the only one you should be looking for.

We can't say enough about how great of an experience we had.
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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2021 Winner
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